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Thanks, y’all!!! This is huge. I might be back for more ‘meat’ so to speak. I have a sneaking suspicion this could get nitty gritty with this group. o_OSome of these people really get nasty...they will accept same sex marriages, but anything other then that is ‘selfish of the man, it’s all about...

Specifically verse 2... And if this has been discussed elsewhere, please point me to where, as I couldn’t find anything. But this verse, Paul is speaking, says each man his own wife and each wife her own husband, and it’s regarding immortality at that time. I’m one where the Bible was meant for...

In response to @elkanahtyler, I’m throughly confused by what you are trying to convey. That said, @Pacman and @FollowingHim, I was not about to even try to decode that. :eek: @ostephenu - SW and my relationship is really good! She and I are VERY close. We do live in the same home and she has a...

Thank you all. I will be reading and rereading this a lot.

Not to sound rude, but how is him spending 90% of his ‘time’ with her an investment into the future of our relationship when he acts like he wants nothing to do with me? Even a simple hug seems to bother him. So how is all his attention focused on her, investing in my relationship with him, when...

We are in the Tulsa area. It’s the place where we used to live years ago...so it’s nice being in familiar territory. :)

As you said, counseling is difficult due to mostly monogamous driven view points. I’m thankful the counselor I have is open to different relationships and supportive of how I live. She has also given me names of those who are supporting of our lifestyle who would be able to counsel us together...

He is a Christian, however his walk could be better, stronger...and I have brought this up before...it fell on deaf ears, obviously. And when I make mention I’m feeling like he’s doing this as ‘punishment’ for my ‘shortcomings’ as a wife, he says no he’s not punishing me. :/ The last part you...

@FollowingHim - I had forgotten about that post, and that was actually a completely different relationship. Not long after I penned that, I found out I was pregnant, and then she left. But a lot of the similarities remain within this new relationship. As for trying to seduce him, I’ve dropped...

Sometimes it hard to title what I have on my mind, and what I’m trying to say or ask for, so if this is placed incorrectly, please feel free to move it or let me know where to put it. But I am seeking advice and understanding from both husbands and wives. Specifically, understanding cause I...

It took us almost 9 years before we conceived and that was a surprise, and then I have been pregnant every 6 months after I had a baby, I would find I conceives again! Completely not planned, but after not being able to get pregnant for so long, I was ok with it, but not this time....I was...

And those are the things I was thinking also. The name, providing for, caring for, not denying sex.... But what if a husband is not doing 1 or more of those things, claiming reasons for why he’s not keeping those marital rights in place? How would one correct that, or advise to that?

We are, back home so to speak. Used to live here before, moved away now we are back. It’s seriously like coming home.

What is considered ‘marital rights’? Looking at Exodus 21:10.... But I know there are other scriptures that say the same or similar. Just trying to understand it all and different interpretations of it all. ( it’s NOT an issue.....was SUPPOSED to be the title....oh how I love new phones I don’t...

Well we are settled now, sorry! Lol

Just need to talk

Thanks, we actually had a change of plans due to covid and went north a little of texas. Trying to get settled and find a routine....everyday is hard after a move.

Everything....I was raised in a home where the father and mother made decisions together, but if mom needed to she would make executive decisions without him, and from my point of view he let her without argument...but I feel like this is different....like completely opposite.

Just for clarification on this please.

We are excited! I was on Mustang Island as a kid and fell completely in love with it, always wanted to go back, and here we are. But super nervous! Still trying to lock in housing, it's hard to find something that will fit us all, plus be within our budget, which is EXTREMELY tight right now...