I am in need of some advice. I have always been a believer in polygamy, I am a Christian however, I am not LDS or FLDS. I am simply a Christian, I have been with my wife for 20 years and we have 4 beautiful children. My wife agreed and we courted a girl for some time but it did not work out due to she was not faithful, and many other things to add but won't go into to long story. My wife still misses her and I know that polygamy is in her heart however she is afraid that her mom will disown her as the topic has come up a few times, her mom is not very forgiving and has been married 8 times. My wife loves her mom and has told me she could not live a lie and not tell her mom but if she did not have a mom this is the life she would live. Knowing how much my wife loves her mom, and also knowing that since we lived a plural relationship for more than a year and after that ended something is missing inside my wife and she is also afraid to put herself out there like that again however, I do not think I can replace what is missing inside her. "She really loved her as a sister wife" but the other girl did not love my wife as a sister wife she loved the game, and to me/us it is not a game this is family, love and unity. So my main question if anyone can help is how can or do I help her to get over her mom? She is very important to her. Also very controlling, and really knows how to bring my wife down whenever she wants. Any suggestions?