So just a refresher to start. I was in a plural marriage a few years back. Things did not work out as we had all hoped. I was a second wife. He sought a third. The first left and then it was just myself, the potential third and him. The third convinced him to become monogomous and he left me. I found out sometime later that the first wife and the third wife tried to make it work and it did not work for them because of the third wife. Fast forward to today. The third wife has now left. The first wife divorced him a few years ago before they tried to join the house with first and third. Now that the first wife and the third wife are gone, the children have reached out to me as well as him. However he and I have not reconciled and I am not sure that it will happen. But the children, he and I and the first wife and I are all on speaking terms again. Confusing I know. However, I am ecstatic that the children have contacted me and are keeping in touch daily as well as the first wife and him. He is currently seeing seeing someone and things seem to be going well for him and her and I am happy for him. He and I have settled our differences and are on friendly terms. The children still call me mom and have asked for me to come visit this summer. The first wife and I have had some very in depth talks and have agreed for me to come visit with them while they are at the family farm over the summer. First wife is single and on her own, third wife is in Florida and filing for divorce.
I post this because obviously there is great need for God's intervention and guidance on all our parts. One member a long time ago mentioned the fact that maybe someday things could be reconciled and the family rejoined again. I am not sure that will happen.. Would I like to see a reconciliation between me and my husband.....YES. Regardless of what happen and how it ended, it was NOT God's intention for that to end. Yes I still refer to him as my husband, because in my heart, in my mind and in my soul he will always be. However, if it does not happen I am ok with that too. I know God has a plan and will reveal all in his time and until then I am just a humble servant doing as I am called.
Please just keep the matter in prayer as well as my family's.
I post this because obviously there is great need for God's intervention and guidance on all our parts. One member a long time ago mentioned the fact that maybe someday things could be reconciled and the family rejoined again. I am not sure that will happen.. Would I like to see a reconciliation between me and my husband.....YES. Regardless of what happen and how it ended, it was NOT God's intention for that to end. Yes I still refer to him as my husband, because in my heart, in my mind and in my soul he will always be. However, if it does not happen I am ok with that too. I know God has a plan and will reveal all in his time and until then I am just a humble servant doing as I am called.
Please just keep the matter in prayer as well as my family's.
