The critical question that nobody has addressed is:
I'll risk offending everybody by attempting to answer that one for
@Evo!
The Gospel is very clear. It's all about Jesus.
"if you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved." (Romans 10:9)
That's all it takes to be a follower of Jesus. And that is sufficient for salvation.
But, if He is our Lord, and we are truly following Him as Lord, that means we will obey Him. Before we can obey Him, we must understand what He wants us to do. We must hear His voice and obey it. How does He speak to us? Through scripture, through other Christians, and through the prompting of the Holy Spirit in our hearts.
The differences between ALL variants / denominations of Christianity come down to our understanding of what God would want us to do, how God would want us to live our lives. And this is because people interpret scripture differently, listen to the advice and teaching of different people, and even actually hear different instructions from the Holy Spirit for their own personal lives (since obviously all of our circumstances are different, and God has different jobs for each of us, God may have different instructions for each of us on occasion).
Catholics place great weight on tradition (the advice of Catholic Christians on how to interpret scripture and live). Messianics also place great weight on tradition (the advice of Jewish rabbis on how to interpret scripture and live). Hebrew Roots, and self-described "fundamentalist" Christians, place more weight on reading scripture and trying to follow the plain reading of it without interpreting it through tradition (but all still interpret it through some level of tradition, because ignoring all tradition is impossible, which is why they all come to different conclusions!). And so forth.
But it's all simply a difference in understanding what His instructions for our lives are.
So, back to the question:
If somebody sincerely believes that God is instructing them to live in a certain way, and they then obey what they believe God is telling them to do, they are doing well.
If somebody sincerely believes that God is instructing them to do one thing, but does something different, then they are sinning.
God looks at the heart. Following Jesus is NOT about getting every piece of our theology correct. It is about asking "What would you have me do today Lord" and obeying that. Then asking the same question tomorrow.
Ask God what He wants you to do, and listen to His "still, small voice" in your conscience. Read scripture. Tell your husband what you are thinking, feeling or hearing, and let your husband help you understand what it all means for how you should act today. Maybe God's next instruction for you is to stop eating pork (a Hebrew Roots position). However, maybe there is something far more important in your life that He wants you to address before you even look at dietary laws. What are His commands for you, today? That is the most important question for you to answer - in consultation with your husband.