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Love and Respect

His-driver

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Men we need to be leaders and not whiners. When being a leader, you need to show the ladies respect. That doesn't mean that you treat them like you own them. They are not a car or a pet. If you want them to follow you, you will need to lead them. You need to love them. You need to respect them by talking nice to them, not down to them. You do not brow beat them and act like they are on your leash. The ladies need to see that you care about them. Do not act like they need to jump when you say jump. Your wife, wives, or future wife needs to see that they are your best friend.

Ladies need to do some of the same things. The man needs to be your best friend. You need to care about them and love them.

In order to have a healthy marriage, God must be first in your lives. Second, everyone needs to give 110 percent. You do not take or expect things in return. Your family must be put in front of your needs.

In plural marriage or monogamy marriages these things apply. Also keep in mind that we will go through storms. These storms are to make us better.
 
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