Ladies I am unsure of what to do. My husband approached me last night and told me he would like for me to have sex with him while he is also having sex with his first wife. Doesn't this disrupt our one flesh union? I have never denied him, nor do I wish to usurp his authority, but this makes me very uncomfortable! I know that God's law is supreme here, and I am unsure which would be sin-having sex while his first wife is also sexually pleasuring him, or denying him my body. He is not asking me to have relations with his other wife.