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Proposed New Law in NC; Note the Openess for Other Unions

Dr. K.R. Allen

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The North Carolina House has voted to place a constitutional ban on same-sex marriage on the May primary ballot, according to news reports out of Raleigh.

The Republican-dominated chamber approved the amendment, 76-42. It required a three-fifths majority -- 72 votes -- to pass.

The measure needs similar Senate approval, but the GOP-dominated chamber has already agreed on the language:

"Marriage between one man and one woman is the only domestic legal union that shall be valid or recognized in this state. This section does not prohibit a private party from entering into contracts with another private party; nor does this section prohibit courts from adjudicating the rights of private parties pursuant to such contracts."

The Raleigh News & Observer explains that the wording "is crafted to ease concerns that the amendment would prohibit businesses from offering benefits to domestic partners," although public employees in some cities and counties could lose those benefits if voters approve the ban.

North Carolina's constitution is the only one among Southeast states without such a prohibition.
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**The above is another hint and piece of evidence that the term "marriage" as a state created entity as a term itself is becoming less and less the proper term to describe the covenant union status of a man and his woman and a woman and her man. But the good news is that the state here looks like it too will recognize private unions which is really what took place in the biblical era anyway though it is improperly translated today with the public legal term known as marriage.
 
Re: Proposed New Law in NC; Note the Openess for Other Union

That is why I have always liked the term "domestic partner". It sounds a little vague and hard to assign negative meaning as it is individualistic. There is no reason to describe a relationship in majority rule terms, so whatever common terms exist, just don't have or label that kind of relationship, and call it something else. By self-labeling something as "marriage" it makes things just a little easier for persecution. Also, representing permanence in a relationship as a completed matter is actually not possible but rather a confidence in God giving another day together for both. Permanence on a personal level is effected by potential separation, scriptural divorce, and when God decides to take a Christian home (last I heard Christians do die from time to time.) These may be negative points, but facts for prayer and asking God for one more day together.
So.....is anyone permanently married? When you woke up in the morning you might feel so, but only as far as God gave you another day. You can not guarantee what God is going to do before lunch any farther then the afternoon. So only represent your relationship as God daily provides.

Is this weak, flaky, and loose? Perhaps, but only if you have created your own God and insist that God's plan be exactly as you wish your God to do and you underwrite your own relationship. For one thing I can not find in scripture all these relationships always based in anything called a "covenant". Surely a "bill of divorcement" finds scriptural mention. But a "covenant" fancy paper doesn't have much scripture backing. It actually hurts the relationship as it may be a false manipulative and a controlling spirit to claim that God has joined you together and that you plan on keeping yourself together with a "covenant" rather than the real God that originally joined you together. If a relationship doesn't truthfully follow God daily then a covenant crutch made of wood will only be part of the problem. This same self justification based in the manipultive, self justifying covenant excuse can also lead to actual crimes. An abuser can write something down, call it a covenant, and abuse the young or innocent.
There is no reason to break any laws if having a relationship with more than one lady. Half the men on the planet are already. They are attracting no legal problems so why label or do acts that violate the law?
A little more love and prayer should substitute for everyone using each other with these rolled up covenants. I find it much easier to memorize the three words "I" "love" "you" then pages and subsections of covenant words. If you have forgotten just what exactly your covenant reads or what drawer you put it in then quit trying to find it and since obviously your partner don't know where it is either, just give each other a hug and ask "whats for lunch sweetheart" or "I love you", etc. (And don't wait till after lunch to say love words from God, as time is only borrowed from God.)
What's wrong with telling people you are living together in the Lord? Heck, half your adult neighbors are living together and no one cares. What's wrong with adding the words "in the Lord". Unless you are not of course.
 
Re: Proposed New Law in NC; Note the Openess for Other Union

What's wrong with telling people you are living together in the Lord? Heck, half your neighbors are living together and no one cares. What's wrong with adding the words "in the Lord". Unless you are not of course.

Good point welltan.

I think the biblical term is from the original languages is most simply translated today as "union" (or joined) and then other terms (covenant, Christian union or love union or whatever) are descriptive terms or theological adjectives to the type of union one has.

Your set of terms too of "domestic partner" is also very helpful as well.

Whatever vernacular one uses though the legally "protected terms" and categories of relationships are indeed becoming less and less accurate. in our era.
 
Re: Proposed New Law in NC; Note the Openess for Other Union

What's wrong with telling people you are living together in the Lord? Heck, half your neighbors are living together and no one cares. What's wrong with adding the words "in the Lord". Unless you are not of course.
I agree and like those words, "living together in the Lord" and "domestic partners". It seems that "religious", Pharisee or cult type of people seem to be the ones that get all upset over formalities and appearances, not secular. What goes on behind the closed doors of a couple is between them and God, unless it involves a criminal act.
 
Re: Proposed New Law in NC; Note the Openess for Other Union

Thank you for posting this.

Do you think the ban could prevent people from using same sex marriage to get free government money while at the same time allowing people to marry multiple women so long as they do not marry multiple women on any legal forms but only do so as a other type of agreement.
 
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