@Poodles and I desired to ask a few questions to those living plural marriage, to help others walking, or thinking about walking, this path. If you are a first wife practicing polygyny, please take a few minutes and share your experiences and thoughts on all or some of the questions listed below. We hope this will start many good conversations and give encouragement to many families in the future.
QUESTIONS FOR FIRST WIVES PRACTICING POLYGYNY
This is created for those who would want to share advice for those new to the lifestyle of Polygyny. We have gathered questions that we think might help others. When talking about feelings, remember they are neither right nor wrong, they just are. How you react is what is important. Please let us know what worked for you and your family, so that we can encourage other women living this lifestyle.. (Feel free to answer only those you are comfortable with)
QUESTIONS FOR FIRST WIVES PRACTICING POLYGYNY
This is created for those who would want to share advice for those new to the lifestyle of Polygyny. We have gathered questions that we think might help others. When talking about feelings, remember they are neither right nor wrong, they just are. How you react is what is important. Please let us know what worked for you and your family, so that we can encourage other women living this lifestyle.. (Feel free to answer only those you are comfortable with)
- What were some positive feelings or reactions you had at getting to know a potential wife? Did you see benefits with having another woman in the home?
- How did you work on overcoming any negative feelings or reactions you had?
- Public display of affection is usually a difficult thing for first wives to adjust to. How difficult or easy was this for you? How did you resolve the jealousy factor if that was an issue?
- Every family does things differently, please share how your family dealt with the logistics of living together.
- Do you live in one house? Separate homes?
- How do you ensure quality time with each wife?
- How do you share kitchen time and mealtimes in your family?
- How do you share household chores?
- How do you share childcare, if there are children in the home?
- If one of the wives works outside the home, how do you deal with that?
- If the second wife had children, how did your family introduce this lifestyle concept to the children? What advice would you share to others going through this dynamic?
- Attending a local church isn’t always possible for a plural family, and many don’t desire it. How does your family deal with church or worshiping together?
- What advice would you most give to new plural families?