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Finding a wife that wants commitment, children, and genuine love forever
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We live in a timeframe within history unlike any other where it’s a real challenge to find true human connection or to be able to share feelings upfront necessary to form a bond. Due to the digital age, it has inspired the inability to naturally communicate and replace it with mind games. Also, there’s a lot of people nowadays who are not into meeting for the right reasons of actual love and long term marriage. It’s more about hooking up, endless texting, etc. This has been much of what our family has known so far being we were on the dating sites.
So how does a family such as ours meet and have meaningful connection with good women who want wholesome marriage and to be loved in a plural home? Do women out there want plural marriage or at least have a willingness to be open to it and gain a stronger testimony of it? Do women out there want to be mothers by inheriting children and becoming pregnant with their own biological children too? Do women out there want to homestead and build a family/tribe for the future?
We are 1000% committed to it all, but really struggling to find anyone principled and mature enough to understand it and learn. I want to be a loving husband to plural wives and take care of them, protect, father children with, etc.
So how does a family such as ours meet and have meaningful connection with good women who want wholesome marriage and to be loved in a plural home? Do women out there want plural marriage or at least have a willingness to be open to it and gain a stronger testimony of it? Do women out there want to be mothers by inheriting children and becoming pregnant with their own biological children too? Do women out there want to homestead and build a family/tribe for the future?
We are 1000% committed to it all, but really struggling to find anyone principled and mature enough to understand it and learn. I want to be a loving husband to plural wives and take care of them, protect, father children with, etc.
I think it is a very difficult time to find a good woman wanting proper Christian marriage and family.
If finding one good woman is difficult, then I imagine finding two or more would be even more complicated.
It's never been easy. Women (and Men) were corrupted by the fall of Adam. We all have sinful, selfish, fallen nature's, which need to be continuously resisted.
Feminism has badly infected the minds of nearly all women. They have been taught that good is evil, and evil is good. They have been propagandized against marriage, and motherhood.
The sexual revolution has helped turn many women into whores. Social media and the dating apps have made everything far worse. Weak men (fathers and church leaders) have not taught women well. Our laws, and courts promote injustice.
The red pill guys online explain many of these matters.
It's not easy.
Those of us who have already been blessed with one good wife should be extremely grateful for what we have received.
Our Father in Heaven is Good!
He has blessed us, and we thank Him.
We are also free to ask Him for additional good wives, if it is His good pleasure for us to have them.
If finding one good woman is difficult, then I imagine finding two or more would be even more complicated.
It's never been easy. Women (and Men) were corrupted by the fall of Adam. We all have sinful, selfish, fallen nature's, which need to be continuously resisted.
Feminism has badly infected the minds of nearly all women. They have been taught that good is evil, and evil is good. They have been propagandized against marriage, and motherhood.
The sexual revolution has helped turn many women into whores. Social media and the dating apps have made everything far worse. Weak men (fathers and church leaders) have not taught women well. Our laws, and courts promote injustice.
The red pill guys online explain many of these matters.
It's not easy.
Those of us who have already been blessed with one good wife should be extremely grateful for what we have received.
Our Father in Heaven is Good!
He has blessed us, and we thank Him.
We are also free to ask Him for additional good wives, if it is His good pleasure for us to have them.
This doesn't go over well these days in any church, so count the cost.
This thread may be worth the read.
Rather than focusing on what I want/don't have, I like to be always giving thanks for what i do have (cf. Eph. 5:20). I've been blessed with two wonderful wives, and I'm most thankful for His kindness to me.
Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, in everything give thanks; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.(1 Thessalonians 5:16-18).
Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, in everything give thanks; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.(1 Thessalonians 5:16-18).
This is the place@Jamie101
I just noticed you are from Preston Idaho, and the first thing that popped into my mind was this....
Isn't that where Napoleon Dynamite lives?
Welcome to the forum!
Dead on. I just gave a sermon (or speech with Biblical sources depending on your framing) on this topic at an event my wife and I organized two weeks ago.
Quoted for truth. The more we learn about God's intended purpose, and the more fruit it bares in our lives, the weaker all the men appear before me.
The big moment of clarity came back in February when all of the men who also knew and understood Biblical marriage turned on me and my wife. An old woman we knew found out that we all understood it, and created a moral panic in our circles. The wives went crazy and the husbands all surrendered their will and authority to the wives.
This is all too common. Sad.
Sadly, spanking opportunity was missed.
As it was in Noah’s time - so it will be in our time. It’s the same people. If you want to have sexual relations un-righteously - this is the best period to be alive in since the time of Noah. However, as it’s written in Proverbs, there’s a way that seems right to a man, but its end is death. If you want to have sexual relations righteously - according to the Way of our Father in Heaven - you will find it very hard. Social media - internet - movies - shows - commercials - music - all plot against the Truth.
2 Esdras 7:37 - (Referring to the Great White Throne of Judgement):
Then God Most High will say to the nations that have been raised from the dead, "Look! I am the one whom you have denied and refused to serve; it is my commands that you have rejected.
2 Esdras 7:37 - (Referring to the Great White Throne of Judgement):
Then God Most High will say to the nations that have been raised from the dead, "Look! I am the one whom you have denied and refused to serve; it is my commands that you have rejected.
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