I recently found this website: https://areyoumarried.wordpress.com/
The author presents the following premise:
The author presents the following premise:
- Sexual intercourse creates a one-flesh bond between that man and that women, and that bond is permanent until the death of one of those individuals. The only thing which terminates the one-flesh bond is death; not a writ of divorce or anything else for that matter.
- Therefore, sexual intercourse is 'marriage'.
- Marriage is not a vow, covenant, ceremony, or tradition of man. Therefore, when we use the word 'marriage' it should rightfully be referring to the state of being in a one-flesh union/bond with a woman whom we have had sex with... and not referring to a civil union (ie. wedding ceremony, state marriage license).
- If a man 'marries' a woman by asking her to marry him and then having a wedding ceremony, he is not 'married' to that woman in the eyes of God until he has sex with her and becomes one-flesh.
- If a man 'marries' (by having a wedding ceremony and then consummating) a woman who was not a virgin when he 'married' her, and any of her previous sexual partners are still alive, that man and that woman are committing adultery every time they have sex because that woman has a one-flesh bond (or bonds) with the living man (or men) whom she had sex with prior to the wedding.
- The Bible states in 1 Corinthians 6:9-10 → Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor homosexuals, nor sodomites, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God.
- We can be forgiven of our sins when we realise we are sinning and repent... and then we are to "sin no more".
