withfresheyes
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As women of God, is it necessary for us to become lovely if we want to be loved? Is it necessary to strive to enrich his life and if so-in return, we find our lives enriched? Can we accomplish this without be "lovely?"
God holds the man respondibile on a much higher level. He has what I would term a priority, sacred trust. As I seek God, striving to know more and have a better understanding of all Biblical truths, my desire is reach out to other women who have "hurting hearts."
God never gave to any man the perfect woman, that is except Adam and he failed in his respondibility to protect her against Satan and temptation.
I am of the firm belief that a woman can not motivate a man, even with the best of intentions, using criticism. Instead she can motivate him with her admiration, trust, respect and sincere praise.
By His original design,woman was placed under the authority of man. I contend that the woman is attracted to a real man, a Godly man, who through much prayer and worship before God, is committed to His calling, acquires through wisdom, new ideas, and has adventures he seeks to explore. Can we as women of God cheer him on, believe in him and his dreams, without attaining loveliness?
I am well aware that there are far too many women who have never had a good, Godly example in their lives. They have not a clue what a Godly woman should be! I think there is an urgent need for this to be taught and trained in the light of His Holy Word! Can we as "older women" teach these things to the younger women without attaining loveliness?
Still, the woman of God must always keep in mind that she is under the authority of a Godly man whose respondibility it is, to guide her.
Women want to be noticed, appreciated, quiet conversations, a loving touch and so much more. High on our agenda is to be loved and treasured. We sometimes experience irrational emotions that we ourselves don't understand. A soft word, a gentle touch, a voice of reason, let us know that you acknowledge what we are feeling and that our emotions are real and troubling to us.
Not only do we experience emotional needs, we have mental needs. Again this is where your leadership, and acknowledgmentof the need come into focus. Then of course there are the physical needs that go beyond intimacy.
It is a comfort to us, that as our headship, you understand! We not only want to hear that from you, we need to hear that from you! Sometimes words are not even necessary. Simply holding her hand, and a gentle embrace is sufficient enough for us to know that you do indeed understand. It is through these actions that we find courage and comfort, allowing us to receive strength from you.
Without loviness????
God holds the man respondibile on a much higher level. He has what I would term a priority, sacred trust. As I seek God, striving to know more and have a better understanding of all Biblical truths, my desire is reach out to other women who have "hurting hearts."
God never gave to any man the perfect woman, that is except Adam and he failed in his respondibility to protect her against Satan and temptation.
I am of the firm belief that a woman can not motivate a man, even with the best of intentions, using criticism. Instead she can motivate him with her admiration, trust, respect and sincere praise.
By His original design,woman was placed under the authority of man. I contend that the woman is attracted to a real man, a Godly man, who through much prayer and worship before God, is committed to His calling, acquires through wisdom, new ideas, and has adventures he seeks to explore. Can we as women of God cheer him on, believe in him and his dreams, without attaining loveliness?
I am well aware that there are far too many women who have never had a good, Godly example in their lives. They have not a clue what a Godly woman should be! I think there is an urgent need for this to be taught and trained in the light of His Holy Word! Can we as "older women" teach these things to the younger women without attaining loveliness?
Still, the woman of God must always keep in mind that she is under the authority of a Godly man whose respondibility it is, to guide her.
Women want to be noticed, appreciated, quiet conversations, a loving touch and so much more. High on our agenda is to be loved and treasured. We sometimes experience irrational emotions that we ourselves don't understand. A soft word, a gentle touch, a voice of reason, let us know that you acknowledge what we are feeling and that our emotions are real and troubling to us.
Not only do we experience emotional needs, we have mental needs. Again this is where your leadership, and acknowledgmentof the need come into focus. Then of course there are the physical needs that go beyond intimacy.
It is a comfort to us, that as our headship, you understand! We not only want to hear that from you, we need to hear that from you! Sometimes words are not even necessary. Simply holding her hand, and a gentle embrace is sufficient enough for us to know that you do indeed understand. It is through these actions that we find courage and comfort, allowing us to receive strength from you.
Without loviness????
. It is good that God has so much grace for me AND that my husband does too!
