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Bride's mom has ALS.

captainjonathan

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My wonderful bride, Laura is having a tough time. We found out yesterday that her mom has ALS and it is rapidly progressing. Over the last several months she has lost her strength in her upper body, ability to speak clearly and cognitive and emotional capacities. On top of this, because of some of the struggles that my bride had been through her sister's are telling her that they don't want to see her (or me) and think it best for us to stay away. Laura's parents want us to come and visit (they are north of Pittsburgh) and her sisters are in West Virginia. Pray for my bride. She is hurting and beating herself up. Pray for me for wisdom and grace. I really want to rip her sisters' throats out (in a Godly way of course) Her most pious sister is married of course to a pastor who is telling me about the difference between forgiveness and reconciliation. I reminded him that God reconcilED us. That forgiveness is a cancellation of debt, not a process of atonement. I am sure I will have more thoughts to follow.
 
Praying right now.

May the peace of God descend over you and Laura, no matter how agitated the other relatives become. May you see their agitation as humorous rather than tragic. (Of the two choices, laugh or cry, laughter is not only more fun, but is healing. It doeth good like a medicine!)

Finally, may Laura's Mom be healed of her ALS.
 
Thank You for your Prayers. My wife is processing. There is so much more I would like to write, but I think that is for another place. Just please continue to pray for a hedge of love and protection for my family.
 
captainjonathan said:
Laura's parents want us to come and visit (they are north of Pittsburgh) and her sisters are in West Virginia.

I might be missing something, but if they are in different locations then why not just ignore the sisters and go visit the parents if they will welcome you? It is not as if the sisters are authority figures.
 
I am sorry, but if my mom asks me to come to her I will go. I don't care what my sisters or brother say. I will do what my mother wants because she is the one whose desires matter. Everything else is secondary to loving her mother through this very difficult time. That said, hubby, you need to be her rock, her defender in all things. She needs to be the rock for her parents, so you need to be her rock. Love means never having to say "I'm sorry." I know that is not scripturally correct, but mom needs her now. I would rather her apologize to her siblings for being there in their faces, than have to apologize to mom for not being there when she needed her.

SweetLissa
 
laura's parents changed their minds quickly. they dont want us out there.
 
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