It has taken me a while to post this but our relationship with sister wife fell through. Mostly due to her constant “no one can tell me what to do” attitude. She would not submit to hubby. He would make rules and she would not follow them or sneak around to break his rules. It always made me very uncomfortable. He gave her the benefit of the doubt thinking in the beginning and I am sure that he had hoped she would change but she never bended. She broke it off, I assume, and she thought could stay with us and still do what she wanted. I told her that she could not come back because she didn’t want to go by the rules set by Hubby. She went back to her Ex. Her Ex was talking to her over the phone during all this so it made it easier to leave our home. This really did a number on me and I told hubby that this ruined me in not pushing forward for another sister wife. It took some time but we had a long talk on how careful we are of the next woman that enters the picture. The biggest pet peeve for me was that she did not seek God or even want to. I mentioned to Hubby that the next woman who comes in needs to be a Christian woman who seeks to put God first. When hubby tried to talk to her about God, she rolled her eyes at him. She was my friend and had put God first in the past so I thought this would be a good relationship but obviously with what we experienced, she has changed. I saw that as a big red flag and very disrespectful with the eye roll. Well, that is my latest in my life and had to share.
