We have friends whose marriage is in serious trouble, and we want to help them put the pieces back together, but we are not sure that they want to, themselves. They are not into the poly lifestyle at all, so that is not a cause of the situation that they are in, but this is a second marriage for both of them, and things have not been going very well lately. We may need to call on @cnystrom and Ruth Ann to help as well, but for the time being, we need to get them to a place where they are willing to work on mending the wounds in their marriage, instead of just quitting.