Greetings everyone,
I'd like to take a moment to introduce myself my name is Edward I am 48 years old and happily married to my beautiful bride Paula.
In the past I've always held to polygamy was in the Bible but not a good idea because of the headaches that some of these men had, after doing some study on these various men I've come to the conclusion that their headaches were due to them not waiting on Yahweh and doing things their way.
I am a union Boilermaker by trade and was always on the road providing for my home, so I lowered our standard of living and took a pay cut and work at a hospital in the cafeteria so I could be home. We are empty-nesters now and it has hit me, hit me hard that I have missed out on a lot with our 5 children, Paula is unable to have any more children and is very content with our grandchildren but me on the other hand I would love to have more children, basically I would like a second chance to do it right, don't get me wrong we raised our children to follow the Messiah but I've also seen them do things that are very heartbreaking and I link that to me being gone.
I have made a comment about the subject to Paula and her response was I don't want to share you and I don't blame her we've been happily married for 24 years she's my Queen and I'm her King and as she puts it sometimes I'm her lord. Today we talked a little bit about it again because of untoldGlory's post on tapatalk and she informed me what if you think she's prettier than me, she's a better kisser than me, better lover than me, a better body than me, I informed her, my Queen you will always be first in my eyes, she said a Castle can only have one Queen and I told her yes but I can still treat both equal you will always be my queen.
I told her if we were to do it I would want somebody who is from the ages of 18/19 to about 30 and has never been married and has no children, so there would not be all the extra baggage or a woman who is in her mid to late thirties or forties set in her ways. I have learned from some of the reading of those who have taken on extra Wives With Children have headaches and from what I've read have not worked out.
My desire is to have more children but I will not do it at the expense of my beautiful bride I love her too much for that and yes I know I could/can share that love with another if the father so desired to open that door for us.
Believe it or not I am actually terrified at the thought of sharing my home with another Lady lol but I am open to the idea and the father will have to make everything fall into place and there will be peace within both Paula and I.
May everyone have a wonderful and blessed day, Edward
I'd like to take a moment to introduce myself my name is Edward I am 48 years old and happily married to my beautiful bride Paula.
In the past I've always held to polygamy was in the Bible but not a good idea because of the headaches that some of these men had, after doing some study on these various men I've come to the conclusion that their headaches were due to them not waiting on Yahweh and doing things their way.
I am a union Boilermaker by trade and was always on the road providing for my home, so I lowered our standard of living and took a pay cut and work at a hospital in the cafeteria so I could be home. We are empty-nesters now and it has hit me, hit me hard that I have missed out on a lot with our 5 children, Paula is unable to have any more children and is very content with our grandchildren but me on the other hand I would love to have more children, basically I would like a second chance to do it right, don't get me wrong we raised our children to follow the Messiah but I've also seen them do things that are very heartbreaking and I link that to me being gone.
I have made a comment about the subject to Paula and her response was I don't want to share you and I don't blame her we've been happily married for 24 years she's my Queen and I'm her King and as she puts it sometimes I'm her lord. Today we talked a little bit about it again because of untoldGlory's post on tapatalk and she informed me what if you think she's prettier than me, she's a better kisser than me, better lover than me, a better body than me, I informed her, my Queen you will always be first in my eyes, she said a Castle can only have one Queen and I told her yes but I can still treat both equal you will always be my queen.
I told her if we were to do it I would want somebody who is from the ages of 18/19 to about 30 and has never been married and has no children, so there would not be all the extra baggage or a woman who is in her mid to late thirties or forties set in her ways. I have learned from some of the reading of those who have taken on extra Wives With Children have headaches and from what I've read have not worked out.
My desire is to have more children but I will not do it at the expense of my beautiful bride I love her too much for that and yes I know I could/can share that love with another if the father so desired to open that door for us.
Believe it or not I am actually terrified at the thought of sharing my home with another Lady lol but I am open to the idea and the father will have to make everything fall into place and there will be peace within both Paula and I.
May everyone have a wonderful and blessed day, Edward