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I blame the vaccines....

The Revolting Man

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The Revolting Man said:
https://nypost.com/2020/01/11/why-t...medium=site buttons&utm_campaign=site buttons

Th emasculation of young men, whether you blame the vaccines or not, should concern us all. Testosterone in western men is dropping at a rate of one percent a year. We need to blame something and blame it hard and blame it loud.
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There’s a problem, no doubt, but I didn’t think this article was building a case for emasculated young men, but rather men who have severe comparison/performance anxiety. I don’t disagree with you, Zec. The lack of real men today is disturbing, but I just don’t think this article supports that case.
 
aineo said:
There’s a problem, no doubt, but I didn’t think this article was building a case for emasculated young men, but rather men who have severe comparison/performance anxiety. I don’t disagree with you, Zec. The lack of real men today is disturbing, but I just don’t think this article supports that case.
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So, the result of too much porn?
The result of the women sleeping around and guys feeling like they might not match up to #25 on her list?

*I haven't read the article.
 
Easy access to porn is likely the number one problem with men. Terribly destructive to the addict. Secondary problem is sedentary photo.e hugging lifestyle.
 
In no particular order...

Porn
Food
Plastics
Vaccines
Elimination of competition (e.g. participation trophies, etc. competition and exerting power boosts testosterone)
Parenting (no corporal punishment means impaired amygdala's and increased anxiety)
Birth control pills in the water (inhibit hormone production)
MeToo



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Or as someone put it to me once (paraphrasing roughly), a 6 mo old baby has had more toxic vaccines injected into them in their life than any adult walking around.

I read an article some 20 years ago lamenting the emasculated state of American men. And that was before millennial numales hit the scene. It's gone from bad to worse.

Also related..

https://amgreatness.com/2019/12/15/a-science-based-case-for-ending-the-porn-epidemic/


Also related...

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PeteR said:
Easy access to porn is likely the number one problem with men. Terribly destructive to the addict.
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While this is a problem, it needs explanation. As the link I posed above explains, erectile dysfunction in young men has gone from 1% to 37%, likely because of the volume and quality of porn available on the Internet.

But porn is only a symptom of not getting sex.

If men and women marry young and have sex regularly there is little incentive to porn. But Christians expect the impossible, delaying marriage and abstaining from sex. For the most part they don't abstain, but the failing dating market is forcing abstinence on them anyway. Young marriage fixes this; so long as parents do their job and keep kids off media and unsupervised internet. But it will only happen if parents train their daughters to desire marriage and children and seek that out first (instead of education and career) and train their young men to seek out marriage promptly.
 
rockfox said:
Also related..

https://amgreatness.com/2019/12/15/a-science-based-case-for-ending-the-porn-epidemic/
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The article has a very interesting reference to the Coolidge Effect.
QUOTE: It is named after an old joke: President Calvin Coolidge and the First Lady are separately visiting a farm. Mrs. Coolidge visits the chicken yard and sees the rooster mating a lot. She asks how often that happens, and is told, “Dozens of times each day.” Mrs. Coolidge responds, “Tell that to the president when he comes by.” Upon being told, the president asks, “Same hen every time?” “Oh, no, Mr. President, a different hen every time.” “Tell that to Mrs. Coolidge.”

Polygamy is the obvious solution. :D
 
rockfox said:
While this is a problem, it needs explanation. As the link I posed above explains, erectile dysfunction in young men has gone from 1% to 37%, likely because of the volume and quality of porn available on the Internet.

But porn is only a symptom of not getting sex.

If men and women marry young and have sex regularly there is little incentive to porn. But Christians expect the impossible, delaying marriage and abstaining from sex. For the most part they don't abstain, but the failing dating market is forcing abstinence on them anyway. Young marriage fixes this; so long as parents do their job and keep kids off media and unsupervised internet. But it will only happen if parents train their daughters to desire marriage and children and seek that out first (instead of education and career) and train their young men to seek out marriage promptly.
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Yes, a thousand times yes!
 
Well if they would wait for marriage, there is no such anxiety, and you don't have to worry about her saying "No" either.
 
Daniel DeLuca said:
Well if they would wait for marriage, there is no such anxiety, and you don't have to worry about her saying "No" either.
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Neither of those are necessarily true, may not even be true in most marriages.
 
Most marriages? I beg to differ. I worked overnight valet at a hotel in Dallas and saw many couples spend their wedding night there.
 
Daniel DeLuca said:
Most marriages? I beg to differ. I worked overnight valet at a hotel in Dallas and saw many couples spend their wedding night there.
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Oh you mean on the wedding night? Well then certainly many will be anxious. But the "No's" come later.
 
Well, of course if they wait until marriage, their first sexual encounter will be on their wedding night. Dealing with "No"s takes skill and effort.
 
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