When we have talked about polygamy, he paralled it to tattoos. He said the only people that care about you having tattoos are people without them. Tattooed people don't care if you don't have them. It made me laugh. He said that having a second wife sounds like the same thing as having tattoos. The only people that care about you having one are the people that don't have one. The people that have one don't care that others don't. HAH.