I think I read this post before retreat but just didn't have time to respond. I had to laugh as I read it and then have had your comment cross my mind several times since reading it. I enjoy getting a different angle on something. You definitely presented one, and it's real. So hmmmm--cnystrom had a good comeback! I'd say, make your side up nice, neat, and tidy, walk around to hers and give her a gentle smooch that won't wake her up, and head out to make your conquest. Chances are she'll smile when she sees your side already made up and may vaguely remember the kiss. You're the winner on all accounts. Carry on soldier!