DarthXedonias
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Hello All! I am DaRome and this I my First post here. I have actually been stalking on this forum for about close to years now 
lol. I recently decided to sign up because of of some events about to take place in my life. Therefore, I have been reading on this forum a lot lately trying to get insight and also wanted to now write a Topic post so I could get more advice for my specific situation. First, I feel I should tell a bit about myself. I am 23, Mixed (mostly black but I have some Native American in me), and Am currently in the U.S. Navy(til 2015) in the Information Technology field. I am currently in Pensacola, Florida but will be stationed in Wahiawa, Hawaii December 5th (shore command). I have not finished college yet but, God willing, I will be able to have my Bachelors and Masters in Information Technology done before I leave the navy in 2015. Now, I feel I should explain my situation. In the next couple of months (about 9 to 10 months), God willing, I might be getting married for the first time. I am screen particular women right now, about 3 (possibly 4; I will also explain later what makes this situation unique). All of them know my views on Polygamy and Each has had varying responses.
Women #1: She is probably the most Godly so far and if anyone could exemplify Proverbs 31, I think it would be her. She cooks very well, and loves to meet new people and interact with them. She is single with no children. She is works as a manager but is a student as well. She believes that in the marriage the man should be the head and the women should take more of a supporting role. She would like though that her future husband make the final decision but that he would take her opinion into account, which I have no problem with. Would like her children to be raise with a belief in God and would want to know more about the christian faith. She is a Christian herself but doesn't go to church that often. I have tested her a few times just to see what her responses would be and she has always reacted in a more Godly way then I would have thought. She has even said, that if we met and things didn't turn out well that she would still want to be friends and that she would wish that I would be able to create a wonderful family I am seeking.
Women #2: She is a very nice women and is currently a Student and teacher. She has the same views on Husband and wife roles as Women #1. Overall a pretty decent person though I do have doubts about her. She was not very thrilled about my polygamy views at first but she said I won her over by being very sincere and honest. The thing is, which I noticed today while talking to her on Skype, she seems to get sad or down when I even bring up the subject of Polygamy. I questioned her on this and she admitted that she is see's nothing wrong with it but at the same time she is just at the "tolerate" phase. Kind of makes me think that this would not get very far even if we got married because I feel she would be miserable as soon as another woman entered the relationship. Also, she says she is a Christian but at the same time she has doubts sometimes because she sees the church become more of the nation's political system as she says it. In other words, that some many churchs want to go to the good old days where the church was seeking earthly political power or to use the "sword" against their neighbors.
Women #3: She has the same views on Roles of husband and wife #1 and really does want a lot of children, wheres as #1 and 2 would be satisfied with just 2 or 3 kids. She enjoys cooking. The one thing is she is a Christian but she has the view of "well, we all worship differently but we all essentially worship the same God" type of view that is so come these days when it comes to religion. The thing is though, I wonder if she said this because even though she knows I am christian I "think" she might think I am some different sect of Christianity or something (like Mormon wise). I find myself questioning if I should even go visit her to be honest.
Women#4: I can't say much about because i just got to know her recently. She is Christian though I am waiting for her reply on her attitude toward Christianity in general. When she realized my views on polygamy she just had a more "well, you should be able to live your life the way you want as long as it does no harm to anyone" attitude about it.
The thing that makes this whole situation unique though is that Most of these women I am talking to , I am going to go Visit In November.... in Ukraine. I mostly decide to look else where then the states (though I might turn my search here eventually) because I have always been interested in different cultures and If you know anything about the former Soviet Union countries, there is a big shortage of men. So, I thought maybe it might be more open to the idea of Polygamy. Though at the same time Ukraine is one of countries where the women are indoctrinated the most in the "ROMANantic" philosophy about marriage. I welcome any opinions or insights you guys have to offer and I would ask that you pray for me during this time that I might have wisdom and that God's will would be done in this situation.
lol. I recently decided to sign up because of of some events about to take place in my life. Therefore, I have been reading on this forum a lot lately trying to get insight and also wanted to now write a Topic post so I could get more advice for my specific situation. First, I feel I should tell a bit about myself. I am 23, Mixed (mostly black but I have some Native American in me), and Am currently in the U.S. Navy(til 2015) in the Information Technology field. I am currently in Pensacola, Florida but will be stationed in Wahiawa, Hawaii December 5th (shore command). I have not finished college yet but, God willing, I will be able to have my Bachelors and Masters in Information Technology done before I leave the navy in 2015. Now, I feel I should explain my situation. In the next couple of months (about 9 to 10 months), God willing, I might be getting married for the first time. I am screen particular women right now, about 3 (possibly 4; I will also explain later what makes this situation unique). All of them know my views on Polygamy and Each has had varying responses.Women #1: She is probably the most Godly so far and if anyone could exemplify Proverbs 31, I think it would be her. She cooks very well, and loves to meet new people and interact with them. She is single with no children. She is works as a manager but is a student as well. She believes that in the marriage the man should be the head and the women should take more of a supporting role. She would like though that her future husband make the final decision but that he would take her opinion into account, which I have no problem with. Would like her children to be raise with a belief in God and would want to know more about the christian faith. She is a Christian herself but doesn't go to church that often. I have tested her a few times just to see what her responses would be and she has always reacted in a more Godly way then I would have thought. She has even said, that if we met and things didn't turn out well that she would still want to be friends and that she would wish that I would be able to create a wonderful family I am seeking.
Women #2: She is a very nice women and is currently a Student and teacher. She has the same views on Husband and wife roles as Women #1. Overall a pretty decent person though I do have doubts about her. She was not very thrilled about my polygamy views at first but she said I won her over by being very sincere and honest. The thing is, which I noticed today while talking to her on Skype, she seems to get sad or down when I even bring up the subject of Polygamy. I questioned her on this and she admitted that she is see's nothing wrong with it but at the same time she is just at the "tolerate" phase. Kind of makes me think that this would not get very far even if we got married because I feel she would be miserable as soon as another woman entered the relationship. Also, she says she is a Christian but at the same time she has doubts sometimes because she sees the church become more of the nation's political system as she says it. In other words, that some many churchs want to go to the good old days where the church was seeking earthly political power or to use the "sword" against their neighbors.
Women #3: She has the same views on Roles of husband and wife #1 and really does want a lot of children, wheres as #1 and 2 would be satisfied with just 2 or 3 kids. She enjoys cooking. The one thing is she is a Christian but she has the view of "well, we all worship differently but we all essentially worship the same God" type of view that is so come these days when it comes to religion. The thing is though, I wonder if she said this because even though she knows I am christian I "think" she might think I am some different sect of Christianity or something (like Mormon wise). I find myself questioning if I should even go visit her to be honest.
Women#4: I can't say much about because i just got to know her recently. She is Christian though I am waiting for her reply on her attitude toward Christianity in general. When she realized my views on polygamy she just had a more "well, you should be able to live your life the way you want as long as it does no harm to anyone" attitude about it.
The thing that makes this whole situation unique though is that Most of these women I am talking to , I am going to go Visit In November.... in Ukraine. I mostly decide to look else where then the states (though I might turn my search here eventually) because I have always been interested in different cultures and If you know anything about the former Soviet Union countries, there is a big shortage of men. So, I thought maybe it might be more open to the idea of Polygamy. Though at the same time Ukraine is one of countries where the women are indoctrinated the most in the "ROMANantic" philosophy about marriage. I welcome any opinions or insights you guys have to offer and I would ask that you pray for me during this time that I might have wisdom and that God's will would be done in this situation.
