Something that has been on my mind for a while...but what would you do, say, or feel if this happened to you?
So for sake of argument....let's say there is a plural family, been together for about a year, give or take. Things have been good...as with all families, ups and downs, but good for the most part. Days are spent at jobs, evenings together at home, and nights are spent every other with the husband.
The setup has worked very well...before bed the husband goes to the wife he won't be sleeping with, spends a few minutes with her, giving her a hug, kiss, tucking into bed, then goes to the other wife and they go to bed together. Depending on the night, sometimes the couple engage in marital rituals...sometimes not, but neither wife steps on the others toes by taking that night away from her SW, until one night it happens.
Husband comes to this nights wife's bed after saying good night to the other wife. When this wife proceeds to get ready for the marital ritual, she gets told that the other wife already took care of his need. When she asks why he allowed that to happen when they had an agreement in place, he said it just happened.
Seriously?! So this wife loses out on her needs and desires because the other decided to overstep and the husband didn't stop it. When this SW would never consider do that to her SW, how could she turn on her like that?!
Now maybe some might see this as petty...but what are your thoughts?
I'm interested to hear how one might handle a situation should this happen.
Thanks.
OMS
So for sake of argument....let's say there is a plural family, been together for about a year, give or take. Things have been good...as with all families, ups and downs, but good for the most part. Days are spent at jobs, evenings together at home, and nights are spent every other with the husband.
The setup has worked very well...before bed the husband goes to the wife he won't be sleeping with, spends a few minutes with her, giving her a hug, kiss, tucking into bed, then goes to the other wife and they go to bed together. Depending on the night, sometimes the couple engage in marital rituals...sometimes not, but neither wife steps on the others toes by taking that night away from her SW, until one night it happens.
Husband comes to this nights wife's bed after saying good night to the other wife. When this wife proceeds to get ready for the marital ritual, she gets told that the other wife already took care of his need. When she asks why he allowed that to happen when they had an agreement in place, he said it just happened.
Seriously?! So this wife loses out on her needs and desires because the other decided to overstep and the husband didn't stop it. When this SW would never consider do that to her SW, how could she turn on her like that?!
Now maybe some might see this as petty...but what are your thoughts?
I'm interested to hear how one might handle a situation should this happen.
Thanks.
OMS