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I want to ❤️ this, but that could send too strong of a message. Consider this post a double like. Respecting your wife and your marriage requires “tending” like a garden does. Digging out weeds, bulldozing the landscaping. Too much loving...

James Dobson wrote a book years ago (I’ve grown less fond of James over the years, but that’s beside the point) called “Dare to Discipline”. Some of the general points apply to marriage in that if you truly love your wife and family, you will...

When a limb insists on being the only one..... ..and limiting the tree's potential. I'd say that is a picture with truth communicating impact, as dominating wives are about that attractive! I liked your post. The other aspect of the strong...

Yes, sorry if that came across as pointed to this community, that was not the intent. It's just something that I've heard a lot in my life in general. But on the other side, in this political climate, it's easy for a Christian to focus too much...

Some things I just don’t feel are worth bothering with.

This was addressed earlier.

Would you prefer “illicit sex”?

I’m with @The Revolting Man on the reality that the hopeful on your radar is somewhere between slim and none of a possibility. We’ve all had tons of those experiences. This is the time for personal growth, use it wisely. It took my wife two or...

My wife knew about my belief in polygyny when she married me and it still took her 4 years and a lot of turmoil to even start down the road of being willing to consider it. I don’t know what the Holy Spirit is telling you but here’s what the...

Reading again, I think you biggest issue now is wife fear you will replace her with new potential wife 2#

James Dobson wrote a book years ago (I’ve grown less fond of James over the years, but that’s beside the point) called “Dare to Discipline”. Some of the general points apply to marriage in that if you truly love your wife and family, you will...

Yes, sorry if that came across as pointed to this community, that was not the intent. It's just something that I've heard a lot in my life in general. But on the other side, in this political climate, it's easy for a Christian to focus too much...

I don’t really have a dog in this fight anymore. I lean “sex does not equal marriage” but I can clearly see the other side’s point. I would just stray away from using such a loaded term that is very vague and seems to lack any English...