Proverbs 31 shows us a wife that is quite savvy in the business world and takes good care of her family. (My belief is that Proverbs 31 was done by many, not just one wife, but that would take me off subject) When the fall took place in the garden, Adam had the choice to say, “No, put the apple down.” But, he didn’t assert his God given authority as head of household. Given that women can be quite sharp and are a huge asset to men and that men are head of household, and are ultimately responsible for his family, I believe open discussions allow a husband to see things from different angles, different perspectives. Henry Ford hired men of varying abilities to advise him from many different angles. We all know the empire he built. When open discussion takes place, it allows for better decision making, seeing things from all sides. If all are in agreement, then continuity in the family continues. If no arrangement can be agreed upon, then as head of household, a decision will be made.to all of you,
is there anywhere in the bible that says a man needs or should wait for "his wife's blessing" in any matter?
im not being sarcastic, i really want to know, even a scripture that hints at getting a better understanding of this...
thankyou in advance
Seems like both Abraham and Jacob waited for their wives assent before ‘husbanding’ their handmaids. This could be because the handmaids belonged to the wives not the husband so may have limited application
But, we also see other examples.... David doesn't appear to have asked for permission or input. The High Priest brought Joash two, it sounds like at one time.. Moses and the Cushite clearly upset some family... the key isn't the wife, it is the Father.That would seem to be the case @Pacman. Sarah, Rachel and Leah each wanted kids so took the initiative to arrange surrogate mothers via their maids. Abraham and Jacob were the ones who took the advice from their respective wives to add the maids as wives.
Eh, the wives belonged to the husband so whatever the wives had was his anyway.My point was that though the men waited, the reason probably had more to do with the fact that the handmaids did not belong to him, they were the property of the wives. In these specific cases, the permissions of the owners were necessary
Eh, the wives belonged to the husband so whatever the wives had was his anyway.
It was hers to do with as she pleased by right and law. The best example of this is the Prov. 31 woman.
My point was that though the men waited, the reason probably had more to do with the fact that the handmaids did not belong to him, they were the property of the wives. In these specific cases, the permissions of the owners were necessary
Eh, the wives belonged to the husband so whatever the wives had was his anyway.
I see proverbs 31 woman as doing all of that on behalf of and with authority delegated from her husband. Her ownership of those maids was with his permission and possibly even paid for by him.
Before you take that personally, I include myself in that and am currently a recovering assumer
In the case of both Leah and Rachels handmaids, they were given to them by Laban as part of their inheritance / dowry. In cases like these, the servants belonged to their mistress and were under her authority/permission.
I’d challenge you to consider why you think that they would belong to him or that he would have automatically been the one to purchase them if they were a bond servant.
You may be conflating cultural norms with biblical principles. And Proverbs 31 is silent on the proceeds of all of Ruby's labor.Something that was definitely not true in regards to Jewish culture. It could be, but only at her discretion, specifically in regards to her dowry. Hagar wasn’t part of a dowry, but both of the other two handmaids were.
The same was true in regards to property or money given as a dowry, or property or goods bought with money from a dowry. He was entitled to the proceeds from her handiwork or crafts under certain conditions and the usufruct from the property, but never the principle. It was hers to do with as she pleased by right and law. The best example of this is the Prov. 31 woman.