Zephyer,
I want to agree with you that it can be done. I have been searching for a second to add to my family for over a year. I got attached once but it did not pan out and I was unsure if I could muster up enough effort to try again. I prayed about my situation and God has blessed me with another opportunity. I ran into an old friend of mine that was dear to my heart. We talked and finally I advised her of what I was looking for. At first she was in shock but over time she has come to understand why I want a second and how it is right in God's eyes. So far things are going fantastic with her and I truly believe I will have to look no futher. Lacey and her are becoming closer and closer every day which is a blessing. She is trying to come spend this weekend with us and that will make me really happy. Zephyr we should never give up when rejected and just put our trust and faith in God to do what is best for us. If we fall we must get right back up and continue the drive. Hope that you can eventually become settled in you life and you find the wife(s) that God leads you to have. Keep believing and have faith. I will pray God works a miracle in your life.
God Bless You,
James and Lacey.
