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Cain Married His Sister

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Isabella said:
You have no proof of any of that, it is just supposition, I thought you were not supposed to add to scripture?

Sorry not buying it."
I don't need proof for speculation. The point is that the only time you accept an explanation that has thin to no evidence whatsoever Isabella, is when it's the ONLY explanation. By offering you a different explanation for the stories other than it's two different accounts of two different creations, I have swept away your explanation as fact. Your explanation is speculation. Mine is speculation. There exists on further evidence to take one or the other, on the face of it. Either could be true.

Mine does fit however, the fact that scripture declares (once again) that EVE is the MOTHER OF ALL LIVING. Quite simply if there are two accounts of two different creations then Eve is NOT the "Mother of All Living." If you don't buy my speculation, that's entirely fine. It's the best way I know of to look at it but I'm not bound to it since no further proof is offered.

What you continue to do is say that the Bible record is not true. You offer that the stories conflict. I then point out that we have no business talking about Cain at all, much less his wife, since if the Bible record is not true, we have no reason to think there was even a person named Cain. Trying to speculate on this ghost's possible wife is a fiction on top of a dream built on a lie.
 
Well said both Neo and Hugh. One passage which clearly shows they are the same account is Exodus 20:11
For in six days the LORD made heaven and earth, the sea, and all that in them is, and rested the seventh day: wherefore the LORD blessed the sabbath day, and hallowed it.
All was created within the six days. But Genesis chapter 2 describes the creation of man, animals, and woman. Exodus 20:11 shows that Genesis chapter 2 has to be a more detailed account of day 6 of the creation week, it cannot be interpreted otherwise.
 
The silence suggests that our work is done here. We just need to write a concise report. Say 500 to 700 words. And chapter 1 of the Patriarchs Commentary on the Bible will be complete...

Thanks for all the good participation.:grin:
 
Hugh McBryde said:
What you continue to do is say that the Bible record is not true. You offer that the stories conflict. I then point out that we have no business talking about Cain at all, much less his wife, since if the Bible record is not true, we have no reason to think there was even a person named Cain. Trying to speculate on this ghost's possible wife is a fiction on top of a dream built on a lie.

Herein lies the real problem in this entire discussion. On one side, we have the Biblical account, which while not specific, is absolutely accurate and leaves no room for another creation due to the statement about Eve.

As mentioned before, this is Biblical Families, a forum promoting the Biblical family and standing firmly only on the inerrant Word of God. If folks choose to look outside the Bible or suppose things to be missing, then they are welcome to their point, even if it is wrong. I am closing the thread as I believe we have sufficiently stated all sides of the case and found that we must rest on the Word of God as the final authority. Thanks to all who have contributed, these types of discussions remind me that while God's Word does not give us every answer to every question, we indeed have all we need to know to live.

On a side note, we got electricity back along with internet. We thank the Lord for His provision in all things, and we also realize just how blessed we are and how much we take for granted.
 
Hugh McBryde said:
I did. Eve is the mother of all living. This is clearly and absolutely declared in scripture. This alone is enough. I have put my money where my mouth is and you're just mouthing off saying I haven't.
Eve is not the mother of sheep, or of goats, or of elephants. Thus, Eve is not the mother of "all living" in this sense and it is ridiculous to make such a claim. Who then does scripture declare Eve to be mother to? Obviously, she is the mother of her descendants. This does not preclude the possibility of other beings that did not descend from her (refer to the sheep, goats, elephants argument above). However, she would still be the mother of any of Cain's descendants (regardless of who he married) because she was Cain's mother. Thus, this particular truth is irrelevant when it comes to answering the question of who Cain married; she would also be the mother of Cain's descendants through Cain alone, and there are clearly other living creatures of whom she is not the mother.

Perhaps also noteworthy, there is another possibility that this only refers to certain individual descendants of Eve; which would exclude this truth even further from relevance regarding who Cain married. In particular, this may refer to those who are spiritually alive vs. those who are spiritually dead (ref. Matthew 8:22; 22:31-32, Luke 9:60 etc.). In this latter possibility, Eve is the mother of all those alive in Christ. Indeed, I think this fits rather well in context too: "I will put enmity between you and the woman, and between your offspring and her offspring; he shall bruise your head, and you shall bruise his heel.” (Gen 3:15). Note that Adam names her following God's pronouncement of the curse on the serpent. Notice also that her offspring is referred to as "he" (i.e. Christ, who clearly is Eve's descendant). Notice also that God had said "but of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil you shall not eat, for in the day that you eat of it you shall surely die” (Gen 2:17), but that neither Adam nor Eve died (in the physical sense of death) "in the day that you eat of it." Thus, Adam might very well have named her Eve knowing full well that God meant spiritual death and that His declaration to defeat the serpent through the "he" of her offspring was the restoration of life that he (i.e. Adam) had as his only hope.

Hugh McBryde said:
There are other scriptures that bolster this view and in fact DEPEND on it for correct doctrine. The fall is a specific event through which all sin in the world flows. This too is clearly declared in scripture. Through ONE MAN sin entered the world. All men are sinful. DO YOU DISPUTE this? What follows is that the sin of another cannot have come from any but Adam, so since all men are sinful (women are included in this sort of universal declaration) and sin entered the world through Adam and was passed on to successive generations through Adam, this too proves the point that ALL are his offspring. Cain's bride, if not of Cain's mother and father, is by definition SINLESS, and not in need of a savior. All have sinned. All have gone astray. All have gone their own way. All of this is traceable only to ADAM.
Regarding "through ONE MAN sin entered the world", it seems you are taking this very literally and leaving no room for hyperbole. If I had nothing else but this scripture I'd have to conclude the same as you. However, scripture interprets scripture. In the garden the serpent tempted Eve, and she ate. Indeed, the serpent went so far as to declare God a liar! Are you claiming that there was no sin in the cosmos before the fall of Adam? If so, aren't you leaving out a lot of scripture that refers to the evil one and his minions? It seems pretty clear that sin and evil were in the creation before Adam fell.

No, I absolutely do not dispute that all men are sinful. Neither do I dispute that all Adam's descendants are sinners (i.e. doctrine of original sin). However, once again this is irrelevant because Adam was Cain's father. Thus, sin passed to Cain and to all his descendants through Adam regardless of who Cain married (once again).

Regarding Cain's bride, why is she be definition SINLESS if she didn't come from both Cain and Eve? You just argued the opposite a moment ago; you said all sin came through Adam, now you're saying all sin comes through Adam and Eve? You can't have it both ways. Regardless, I think we've already established that sin and evil was present in the creation before Adam fell (unless you think the evil one and his minions are and remain sinless).

Hugh McBryde said:
I could go on and on, and I have. You're engaging in an internet tactic involving repeatedly asking to be shown something that hasn't been shown to you and getting that in on the LAST PAGE so that the impression stands to the casual reader that you haven't been told. You've been told. YOU ARE WRONG.

If however, you wish to preach another Gospel, you are not bound to these things, but you ARE discovered.
Yes, you do continue to go on an on with irrelevant facts that have nothing to do with showing the scriptural basis for declaring you know that Cain married one of Eve's daughters. Although you suggest that many other truths depend upon the parentage of Cain's bride, you've failed to establish this to be the case. You've told me nothing relevant. You're engaging in the worldly tactic of baffle and confuse; using facts that have nothing to do with the case you're trying to make and hoping that folks get lost in the mist so that they won't realize you don't know what you're talking about.
 
NeoPatriarch said:
There is at the least one rock that has not yet been turned over...

Genesis 2:18 then the Lord God said, "It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make a helper fit for him.

Adam was alone. As in no others.

Genesis 2:20 the man gave names to all the livestock and to the birds of the heavens and every beast of the field. but for Adam there was not found a helper fit for him.

None of the living creatures could help Adam. No monkey, no pre-human, no one to help in the way Adam needed.

For that God created Eve, and we understand that mankind does not reproduce with another kind.

Therefore Cain married his sister (or cousin perhaps).

I think that seals the deal. I don't see any wiggle room, except perhaps to say, scripture was wrong and there actually was a helper available, when scripture says there was not.
Indeed, God created a helper fit for him. Why does this preclude Cain from taking a bride unfit for him? Nothing prevented Cain from murdering Abel. Nothing would prevent Cain from marrying a horse if he chose to. Clearly a horse would be unfit for him. Thus, this is irrelevant. We can agree that there was a potential for Cain to take a wife fit for him, but we cannot conclude that because this was possible, this was what Cain chose to do. Since Cain had a son, we can conclude that whomever he married was able to procreate with him.

Regarding mankind reproducing with another kind, refer to the "sons of God came in to the daughters of man and they bore children to them. These were the mighty men who were of old, the men of renown" in Genesis 6. Although modern Christianity commonly holds that these were descendants of Seth, this is a rather recent speculation that contradicts the far more ancient interpretation of the Jews that the sons of God were fallen angels. In addition, the Sethite interpretation doesn't account for a variety of other details of the account of the state of the creation at this point.

In any case, you conclude that Cain married his sister or cousin because you assume there is no other he could procreate with. Note that this is an assumption not confirmed in scripture, nor in experience.
 
Oreslag said:
Are you claiming that there was no sin in the cosmos before the fall of Adam? If so, aren't you leaving out a lot of scripture that refers to the evil one and his minions? It seems pretty clear that sin and evil were in the creation before Adam fell.
Yes, we are all claiming there was no sin in the cosmos before the fall of Adam, because that is directly stated in Scripture. Romans 5:12-19.
12 Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:
13 (For until the law sin was in the world: but sin is not imputed when there is no law.
14 Nevertheless death reigned from Adam to Moses, even over them that had not sinned after the similitude of Adam's transgression, who is the figure of him that was to come.
15 But not as the offence, so also is the free gift. For if through the offence of one many be dead, much more the grace of God, and the gift by grace, which is by one man, Jesus Christ, hath abounded unto many.
16 And not as it was by one that sinned, so is the gift: for the judgment was by one to condemnation, but the free gift is of many offences unto justification.
17 For if by one man's offence death reigned by one; much more they which receive abundance of grace and of the gift of righteousness shall reign in life by one, Jesus Christ.)
18 Therefore as by the offence of one judgment came upon all men to condemnation; even so by the righteousness of one the free gift came upon all men unto justification of life.
19 For as by one man's disobedience many were made sinners, so by the obedience of one shall many be made righteous.
Note the word "world". It is the Greek "kosmos", meaning world or universe - it means everything. The Bible clearly states that sin entered the cosmos through Adam, therefore before Adam no sin was in the cosmos.

As the remainder of the passage shows, this is absolutely fundamental to the entire Gospel. As Mark has pointed out, this is a Biblical website, and any argument that denies the absolute fundamentals of the Gospel is not going to be promoted here.

The only reason to believe sin and evil were in the creation before Adam's fall, is because of the insistence of many scientists over the past 150 years that the history of the earth includes millions of years of evolution (and therefore death) before the time of Adam. This is an extrabiblical theory that is contradictory to scripture, and undermines the entire gospel. There is no reason to believe it from scripture alone - only if we believe the words of scientists are more accurate than the word of God.

Based on Mark's comment I think he intended to lock the thread, but forgot to, so I'll do it for him now.

For more reading on the issues covered in this thread, from a biblical standpoint, I would highly recommend the following resources:
Who was Cain's wife? http://www.answersingenesis.org/articles/nab/who-was-cains-wife
Was there death / evolution before Adam? http://www.answersingenesis.org/articles/lie/genesis-evolution-not-mix
 
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