The problem I have with the "messianic interpretation" you gave is it kind of gives the impression that we don't need Yeshua or that He didn't need to die for use to belong to The Father. When Yeshua in the Garden of Gethsemane said take this cup of suffering away from me, meaning give me another way, He could have just said I'm taking option B you can have the wife and kids. It creates the illusion of multiple ways to The Father which defeats the purpose of Him becoming a man and tabernacling with us to fulfill prophecy so He could Tabernacle with us as the Father.