John Whitten said:
Earlier you asked for someone to show where God commanded plural marriage. I would like to see where marriage itself was ever a command.
1. I would like to see where God commanded a man to marry one wife. Because if it is necessary for God to command a man to marry more than one wife in order for a man to marry more than one wife, then why not make it necessary for God to command a man to marry his first wife in order for a man to have more than zero wives?
2. It has been commonly stated that people in polygyny led a life of sin and therefor polygyny should be forbidden. There are numerous examples of people who married one woman who were later led to a life of sin
A. Adam and Eve who sinned and brought death into the world
B. Job who was told to "curse God and die," (See Job 2:9 NIV 2010) was obviously having marital difficulties in what may have been monogamy and who was not listed as having more than one wife although he might have had more than one wife
C. Peter who denied Jesus and was not listed as having more than one wife, although he might have had more than one wife
D. Nabal the fool who was not listed as having more than one wife (I am assuming Nabal sinned with very good reasons for that assumption although I am not sure if I can prove that)
3. Jesus was not listed as having any wife and did not sin, where as Adam was married to one listed wife and sinned. Those who argue monogamy is better than polygyny because of a lack of sinless examples have a deep problem in endorsing monogamy for Jesus had no listed wife or wives and may have been unmarried.
It does not say that God forced Adam to marry Eve in Genesis 2, perhaps if he remained unmarried to her, they would not have sinned together, it could have all been the downfall of his choice to live a married monogamous life, instead of a single life. We do not know if the command to multiply was given before or after they married, therefor this cannot be argued as a command for them to marry.
4. There is potentially a command to have more than one wife who he cannot divorce for the person who has already had sex with more than one women.
28If a man find a damsel that is a virgin, which is not betrothed, and lay hold on her, and lie with her, and they be found;
29Then the man that lay with her shall give unto the damsel's father fifty shekels of silver, and she shall be his wife; because he hath humbled her, he may not put her away all his days.
Deuteronomy 22:28-29 King James (KJV)
5.
A. There is a command not to forbid marriages that God has not forbidden
1 The Spirit clearly says that in later times some will abandon the faith and follow deceiving spirits and things taught by demons. 2 Such teachings come through hypocritical liars, whose consciences have been seared as with a hot iron. 3 They forbid people to marry and order them to abstain from certain foods, which God created to be received with thanksgiving by those who believe and who know the truth.
1 Timothy 4:1-3 NIV 2010
B. God has given permission to marry either
i. A woman you own through warfare
10 When you go to war against your enemies and the LORD your God delivers them into your hands and you take captives, 11 if you notice among the captives a beautiful woman and are attracted to her, you may take her as your wife. 12 Bring her into your home and have her shave her head, trim her nails 13 and put aside the clothes she was wearing when captured. After she has lived in your house and mourned her father and mother for a full month, then you may go to her and be her husband and she shall be your wife. 14 If you are not pleased with her, let her go wherever she wishes. You must not sell her or treat her as a slave, since you have dishonored her.
15 If a man has two wives, and he loves one but not the other, and both bear him sons but the firstborn is the son of the wife he does not love,
Deuteronomy 21:10-15 NIV 2010
ii. A woman you have bought or someone else sold to you
7 “If a man sells his daughter as a servant, she is not to go free as male servants do. 8 If she does not please the master who has selected her for himself,
he must let her be redeemed. He has no right to sell her to foreigners, because he has broken faith with her. 9 If he selects her for his son, he must grant her the rights of a daughter. 10 If he marries another woman, he must not deprive the first one of her food, clothing and marital rights. 11 If he does not provide her with these three things, she is to go free, without any payment of money.
Exodus 21:8 Or master so that he does not choose her
Exodus 21:7-11 NIV 2010
C. A woman is either owned by i. The man who wants to marry her (Deuteronomy 21 and or Exodus 21) ii. Someone else (Exodus 21)
Since the women is owned by someone (even in the case of divorce and widowhood in which case she owns herself)
if you combine women under category i and ii that will include all women
All single women can be involved in polygynous marriage (except for the exceptions) because in both case i and case ii a married man is permitted to marry a woman. For when the permission is given it does not say it is only given to single men but married men and to add the word single would be adding to the word of God and contrary to the clear references for how to interact with multiple wives, furthermore it would be illogical that God accidentally omitted the word married to men when he paid so much attention to the woman's marital status in Deuteronomy 22 and no mention of the man's marital status in Deuteronomy 22.
D. Therefor anyone who forbids a married man who is lawfully allowed to take an additional woman in marriage who he owns or he has purchased from someone else (all cases except for the specific exceptions such as the same man marrying both a woman and her daughter, etc.) from marrying that woman is involved with a doctrine of demons taught by a hypocritical liars with seared consciences.