We have started a church, and I'm with Chris on the "Intentional Community" idea. You certainty are all invited. I had suggested that you try to find something more local as a first option, whether it be plural friendly or not.
This does make a first order of business then, discussing what constitutes a church. To some degree that's been done out in the open but more in the invitation only debate forum, which not many can see and hasn't been posted to since more than a year ago.
http://biblicalfamilies.org/forum/viewtopic.php?f=27&t=2545 "The tradition of Apostolic Authority"
http://biblicalfamilies.org/forum/viewtopic.php?f=56&t=2549 "Submitting to Human Leadership & Church"
The latter was in the debate forum, and I'll reprint the April 6th, 2011 OP here for all to see:
From Matthew 3:
I indeed baptize you with water unto repentance: but he that cometh after me is mightier than I, whose shoes I am not worthy to bear: he shall baptize you with the Holy Ghost, and with fire: Whose fan is in his hand, and he will throughly purge his floor, and gather his wheat into the garner; but he will burn up the chaff with unquenchable fire. Then cometh Jesus from Galilee to Jordan unto John, to be baptized of him. But John forbad him, saying, I have need to be baptized of thee, and comest thou to me? And Jesus answering said unto him, Suffer it to be so now: for thus it becometh us to fulfil all righteousness. Then he suffered him. And Jesus, when he was baptized, went up straightway out of the water: and, lo, the heavens were opened unto him, and he saw the Spirit of God descending like a dove, and lighting upon him: And lo a voice from heaven, saying, This is my beloved Son, in whom I am well pleased."
Also from Luke, Chapter 1:
According to the custom of the priest's office, (Zacharias') lot was to burn incense when he went into the temple of the LORD. And the whole multitude of the people were praying without at the time of incense. And there appeared unto him an angel of the Lord standing on the right side of the altar of incense. And when Zacharias saw him, he was troubled, and fear fell upon him. But the angel said unto him, Fear not, Zacharias: for thy prayer is heard; and thy wife Elisabeth shall bear thee a son, and thou shalt call his name John. And thou shalt have joy and gladness; and many shall rejoice at his birth. For he shall be great in the sight of the LORD, and shall drink neither wine nor strong drink; and he shall be filled with the Holy Ghost, even from his mother's womb. And many of the children of Israel shall he turn to the Lord their God. And he shall go before him in the spirit and power of Elias, to turn the hearts of the fathers to the children, and the disobedient to the wisdom of the just; to make ready a people prepared for the Lord. And Zacharias said unto the angel, Whereby shall I know this? for I am an old man, and my wife well stricken in years. And the angel answering said unto him, I am Gabriel, that stand in the presence of God; and am sent to speak unto thee, and to shew thee these glad tidings."
John is the son of a Priest. So what is John?
Jesus said: "It becometh us to fulfill all righteousness" when he insisted to John, that John Baptize HIM. We also know from the recitation of the Decalogue (the Ten Commandments) that the people feared (as did Zacharias) the presence of the LORD or any signifying the presence of the LORD, such as the angel Gabriel. The people asked at the time of the giving of the Law of God through Moses his servant, that Moses speak to God, for they feared death at the mere sound of his voice. God established Moses' tribe in Israel (the Levites) as holy to him for and as a place from which to draw priests to speak to God in the place of his people.
Jesus does not break that commandment of God.
To say that I am bestowing on the leaders of congregations (it's elders, it's teachers and so on) priestly office, is an equivocation. After Sinai, God does not simply "poof" congregations into being. You can say YOU'VE seen that, but then you elevate YOUR EXPERIENCE over that of the Word of God which he places higher than his name. Ever since the appointment of the Levitical priesthood and the establishment of Kings, God has worked through even the broken and lost leaders of those institutions to work his purposes. Two examples, the first from John 11:
One of them, named Caiaphas, being the high priest that same year, said unto them, Ye know nothing at all, Nor consider that it is expedient for us, that one man should die for the people, and that the whole nation perish not. And this spake he not of himself: but being high priest that year, he prophesied that Jesus should die for that nation; And not for that nation only, but that also he should gather together in one the children of God that were scattered abroad. Then from that day forth they took counsel together for to put him to death."
Gamaliel says in Acts 5:
Refrain from these men, and let them alone: for if this counsel or this work be of men, it will come to nought: But if it be of God, ye cannot overthrow it; lest haply ye be found even to fight against God."
No one, including Paul who was his student, claims Gamaliel's salvation, yet does he not speak the truth?
What we gather from these passages are:
God works through the human authority structures he establishes, once he does so, he continues to do so.
John the Baptist was of Priestly family, and Jesus INSISTED that John baptize HIM.
Even the sinful lost and broken representatives in God's established offices speak for him in certain ways (the prophesy of Caiaphas).
As I have said before, the believers met in the temple, worshiped there, were marginalized to the area of Solomon's Portico (an entryway) and eventually were thrown out of Jerusalem for the most part.
Jesus was rejected and condemned by the two established kinds of authority that God put into human hands in addition to his being ordained by them. He was condemned by the Jewish priestly leadership, he was turned over to them by the civil authority (Rome).
Every church in the New Testament was planted and/or endorsed by human leadership in Jerusalem.
Even Paul, called directly by Jesus, goes to Jerusalem to receive the sending and endorsement of John and Peter.
Yet most of you say that we can just receive a calling and be sent directly by God to establish a church. You say this because most if not all of you do this if you don't say it.
What prophesy led you to establish a church having less authority to do so than Christ had when beginning his ministry? What makes you think that you can establish a church in ways that none of the churches of the New Testament were established? Is it because you say no one has come and we need to? Saul sacrificed as was not his office to do. Remember Saul the King?
Saul said unto Samuel, Yea, I have obeyed the voice of the LORD, and have gone the way which the LORD sent me, and have brought Agag the king of Amalek, and have utterly destroyed the Amalekites. But the people took of the spoil, sheep and oxen, the chief of the things which should have been utterly destroyed, to sacrifice unto the LORD thy God in Gilgal. And Samuel said, Hath the LORD as great delight in burnt offerings and sacrifices, as in obeying the voice of the LORD? Behold, to obey is better than sacrifice, and to hearken than the fat of rams. For rebellion is as the sin of witchcraft, and stubbornness is as iniquity and idolatry. Because thou hast rejected the word of the LORD, he hath also rejected thee from being king."
Uzziah the King who was generally counted as righteous, did similar things as well, and was banned from God's house since he was made a leper and remained so until his death.
Rebellion is not a light thing. God wants us to be in a place of submission to authority. It is clear that the authorities God places over us, are often not so righteous. That does not vacate our charge to follow their instruction when possible. Matthew 23:
Then spake Jesus to the multitude, and to his disciples, Saying, The scribes and the Pharisees sit in Moses' seat: All therefore whatsoever they bid you observe, that observe and do; but do not ye after their works: for they say, and do not."
We seem to want to only wield authority over women, and being King, Priest and Prophet.
Rebellion is an epithet in the mouth of our LORD. Why does it seem to me that it is a virtue in our eyes?
I have offered myself for the establishment of a legitimate church on this earth. I am certainly not the only one who qualifies, but I am the only one that I know of, that qualifies who is like minded on marriage with the rest of you.
Find someone else and I'll put aside my effort immediately and join their church.
Again I repeat my "lineage" for you. The Roman Catholic Church is a descendant of the Church of Rome authorized by Paul and Jerusalem. There are other such descendants. Rome is not the only such legitimate Church. It is however, my ancestor in this matter.
The line is as follows: Jerusalem, Rome, The Reformation (Through Calvin and Luther and the Church of England among others), The American Presbyterian Church (now called the PCUSA), The Orthodox Presbyterian Church by virtue of the Northern Presbyterian Church (now the PCUSA) tossing out Gresham Machen, and then myself by virtue of the fact that Gresham Machen's church tossed me out.
It doesn't have to be me, but no one else has come forward and none of you can show me how your "churches" are anything but examples of Saul's rebellion.*
*(A post script, I have also written on the sins of Jeroboam the Son of Nebat. They are not simply Idolatry, but also putting people in office that ought not be there.)