You missed the very next verse Steve:steve said:has anyone considered that samson had put himself in a place where he did not belong?
lying would never have come up if he had avoided falling in love with a heathen.
Then his father and his mother said unto him, [Is there] never a woman among the daughters of thy brethren, or among all my people, that thou goest to take a wife of the uncircumcised Philistines? And Samson said unto his father, Get her for me; for she pleaseth me well.
i suppose that it is hard to raise a child that is anointed by YHWH from the womb and not have him turn out self-centered.
In this particular case, it was God who made Samson fall in love with a heathen, purely in order to pick a fight with them. So it was not because he was self-centred, but because it was actually the right thing to do under unusual circumstances.His father and mother did not know that this was from the Lord, for he was seeking a pretext to act against the Philistines. At that time the Philistines had dominion over Israel.
steve said:putting on clothes is privacy
cross-dressing in order to fool someone is deception