Well said!!
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Why does the Husband Not Need Permission from his Wife?
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You should heed the warning, he's being kind to use his time to articulate a truthful warning to others.
There is nothing to articulate because he totally unrealistic model of politics and how society behaves.
He believes in absolute godlike power of ruling class where everythink that happens in part of plan, nevermind that elites can actually lose or have inside rebellion.
Does anyone have where he actually said "demon" because he probably said "daemon" which is a program that runs as a background process.
I do believe the very top of the ruling class are the rebellious angels - with Lucifer being the chief. Much of what is on television is satanic - especially when it comes to the oscars, music awards, halftime shows, etc. Regardless of who has been in office the past few decades - the overall trend is going towards the same direction. Both sides attribute to inflation. Both sides are Anti-torah. One side is simply more anti-torah than the other side. Today's conservative would be considered a woke person in the 1940's and 1950's. Men back in those days knew that if you wanted to have sex with a woman, then you offer her marriage and get permission from her father. And women knew to save their virginity for marriage, and to save showing off their body for their husband. While conservatives are still more likely than leftists to hold on to this torah regarding marriage; that doesn't mean today's culture hasn't influenced them. This same mechanism applies in politics.
Majority of people will never decide on the right politicans. Perhaps every now and then, but not the majority of the time. So can someone that was part of the club choose to rebel? Yes, of course, because people have free will. But then you get stories of people dropping dead, and it being labeled a suicide. Case closed. Or thrown in jail. Or wars started. Or careers destroyed and blacklisted. Then other times the chaos is deliberate but controlled. Covid is the most recent example. However, you wish to call them, the deep state, the cartel, illumanti; I believe they still hold a firm grasp over policy and direction.
In the earlier days of our search, we very much encountered several who would not only have not been a blessing but a bloody curse...might stretch to plague in a couple of instances.
To make a lateral observation...I am glad that I am not one of the guys who is largely motivated, openly or as a hidden agenda, by the desire for another wife because it would give me more sex partners.
I am imagining what kind of mistakes I could have made if I were being lead about by the ald fella. No thank you
I personally applaud you for making rational decisions regarding who you invite into your family. At the same time I have to admit that I have seen what I thought were good families break up all on their own without a plural, I have seen a few families made more stable by adding a plural, and I've seen some clearly sexually influenced decisions work out well.
My husband Steve was fairly honest at times about his decisions and while he made some choices for the family based on other needs he also made some decisions based on who he wanted to boink.
That sounds crass but I think there can be some sort of balance to be struck between purely rational choices and then allowing for the Holy Spirit to work through our God-given sexual desires. I will not at all pretend to understand all of this emotional and sexual desire stuff because I don't but I will say that we are designed by our Creator with desires and drives and it follows that He can work His Will through this design.
It falls to us to make sure that we are following God's plan and not our own when we pursue our desires.
I guess I am saying is that if you find an available woman who makes your heart race and she's potentially a good fit for your family then maybe there's a reason why God put her in front of you as a potential plural.
The discipline and discretion you followed by saying "No" for the best interests of your family when it would have been easy to say 'yes' is not just commendable but a role model for all of us to look to as inspiration.