Absolutely nothing I said in my last post describes a man as a slave or not able to become an author of his own life. As a creation you still have laws and boundaries to function within. There is an enormous amount of choices and ability to live a good, exansive, and beautiful life while serving God. Yes I said serving he is still above us.
You can either serve God or mammon.
You still don't get it. What is your relation with Lord?
I do expect do become co-creator, somebody who is asked about my opinions and desires.
2 Corinthians 3:18But we all, with unveiled face, beholding as in a mirror the glory of the Lord, are being transformed into the sa
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I doubt this includes just obeying as Jesus.
I also doubt Father never asked Son did He wanted to die.
Is your conception of religious life based on obeying rules or actually caring about Him? I don't see nowhere in your writing why you care about Him.
I do ask why He wants those rules because I want to understand His work. Any artist receives indirect complement when you ask him about his song, painting.....
So what is more important? Rules of Lord or Lord of Rules?
What you are pushing isn't biblical. You cant just pick and chose what part of Gods law to live by, that is Live As Thou Wilt, Which is pure luciferianism.
I never said this or implied. In morally f... times as those, you can't avoid tricky situations. Are boyfriend/girlfriend married? Is situation of friends with benefits where currently nobody is sleeping with others people marriage or not?
Questions can't be thrown away. Are those women marriable or adultery risk?
Christians can't be light on hill if all we do is hide on homesteads.
If you consider the first part of what you said to be mindless then you aren't looking for a biblical marriage or a biblical family structure within your life. If you want an egalitarian marriage you will end up serving your wife rather than the other way around. Women were created to be men's helpmeets. Not for the man to be theirs.
Someone has to be the head of the house. If the man is not the woman is by default.
I and patriarchy:
Patriachy is natural because human society by its nature is hierarhical and because women prefer men with greater status than her own.
Current problems comes from belief in egalitarism. Men and women are completly same with few small unimportant biological differences.
So, real question is how did you so much missed my beliefs. I assure you, they didn't change in this domain.
No, expect more from wife than obedience. Any concubine can provide modicum of body and not spreading legs for another man. Better trained will provide obedience, house cleaning and pleaseant company.
No, marriage is alliance. I still think that without sex and children there is no reason for marriage. But nobody can detect man's BS better that his own wife.
Also, historical predecent is man finding wife before starting his career. There must be good reason for that.
And marriage where people don't become better together and help each other with survival is waste of time. Speaking somewhat from experience.
I do expect from wife to be more like
@MeganC. She is able to challenge men and be more than her husband's parrot.
My worth as husband doesn't because I'm smarter, earn more or other useful bullish. It must come from masculinity, which women desire and don't want to do. Also, being useful to another doesn't require following any script.