ylop said:
You have stereotyped former wives as exes.
You cannot even be bothered counting them.
Sure its an expression but it reveals a heart truth.
Not really.
Just out of curiosity what would prefer that I call them? What word would you prefer? Would you prefer "
former wives"? What about "
women that I was once married to"?
I'm trying to stay positive here but your efforts at enforcing political correctness and your insulting insinuations are really making it difficult.
In an earlier comment ylop said:
I don't see any real biblical marriage here, just a series of informal relationships.
No one who is willing to make that kind of stereotyping generalization, after seeing only a few words on the internet, is in a place criticize another about stereotyping or "
heart truth." Perhaps you should reread Matthew 7:1-5.
ylop said:
And you are now demonstrating you are deaf to feedback.
Again, not really. The problem is that I'm not deaf. I am reading your words and considering their meaning and the conveyed meaning isn't anything even remotely resembling polite or civilized.
ylop said:
Even if I am wrong about this, and you are right and I am completely ignorant about your situation, perhaps some women felt the same way - that you don't listen to feedback.
I hope that you think deeply through some of the posts.
As the people here including myself are attempting to assist.
Perhaps you should take your own advice and reflect deeply on why you would offer such hostility, assumptions, and stereotyping to a man you don't even know.
ylop said:
I actually answered your original question where you asked for alternative responses to "help pack your bags".
Yes, you did. If hadn't already tried all of your suggestions and a lot more, including taking a year off from searching for a second wife as I mentioned in the OP, then that might have actually have been helpful.
The problem is your failure to read the OP and see that I had stated that I had already tried such things. You chose to assume rather than reading or asking for clarification however. That is your failure not mine.