Hi Ladies. I'm new here but wanted to put my 2 cents in. I think to each his/her own. What I may think modest you may not, or vice versa. I had someone tell me once that I often show too much cleavage. Because of a traumatic experience I had as a child I can't stand anything close to my neck/throat. So yes, I do tend to wear low cut tops. But, that doesn't mean they aren't modest. I tend to wear dresses most of the time simply because they're comfortable. My SW rarely wears them.