I have a saying I tell myself; "Do I want to do (fill in the blank)? No... So I'm doing it!"
Used it tonight to kick my own butt out the door to go to a dance for the first time after a year hiatus. I'm still hiccupping from the physical exertion a couple hours later. Got to dance with several pretty ladies, most of whom are unattached. First time dancing since I came to a more polygynous ideology. It cleared up SO much of the anxiety I used to feel with women at dance. ( I used to dance BECAUSE I was anxious around women, thus training courage.)
Used it tonight to kick my own butt out the door to go to a dance for the first time after a year hiatus. I'm still hiccupping from the physical exertion a couple hours later. Got to dance with several pretty ladies, most of whom are unattached. First time dancing since I came to a more polygynous ideology. It cleared up SO much of the anxiety I used to feel with women at dance. ( I used to dance BECAUSE I was anxious around women, thus training courage.)