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I have three women...accounts?...message me in less than 24 hours currently. One I am fairly sure is a keep the customers interest account. IE message hi once every 5-6 months and never respond to a reply. The other two may well be real people but neither have had follow up responses.
One tries to stay upbeat about the process but I wonder constantly at the seemimg majority of people (not just the woman) on there.
I have not looked but I feel confident in saying that there are likely ten to one more swinger/poly hookup sites than there are marriage focused dating sites much less the plural marriage ones. Surely there are far more fertile grounds for their degenerate goals.

Yea that was my beef. Beautiful women seemed to message me only when my subscription was due and the only was to respond was to subscribe and if you do subscribe and write to them, they do not even write back. Hmm....
 
Any men with any signs of luck with modernpolygamy.com?
I have been active for a few days yet not one woman has even viewed my profile.
There is no way to filter out people so you would think at least one woman would click?
I have gotten some to talk to me, it didn't go anywhere because the values differed to much or they lived to far away. I think the main thing that is posing a problem is that we live in a society where polygyny does not want to be done. Modernpolygamy.com seems to be really excellent at keeping spam fake accounts away. But this reveals the startling reality that there are so few women actually seeking polygyny. There needs to be a rise in popularity of polygyny for any of us to have a chance at finding someone.
 
There needs to be a rise in popularity of polygyny for any of us to have a chance at finding someone.
Not necessarily. It can look impossible, but that doesn't mean it is.
My hubby figured if it was ever going to happen it would be someone local, not online or long distance, and it would happen naturally. That was true.

I was always outspoken about our beliefs and my interest in living that way. The single mom he hired as secretary got to know and like the whole family....and certainly admired him. Then after a year or so she accepted a permanent position.

Be a good steward of what you have. A good husband, father, provider. Be open about your beliefs. Ya never know when something good might come into your life.
 
Not necessarily. It can look impossible, but that doesn't mean it is.
My hubby figured if it was ever going to happen it would be someone local, not online or long distance, and it would happen naturally. That was true.

I was always outspoken about our beliefs and my interest in living that way. The single mom he hired as secretary got to know and like the whole family....and certainly admired him. Then after a year or so she accepted a permanent position.

Be a good steward of what you have. A good husband, father, provider. Be open about your beliefs. Ya never know when something good might come into your life.
All good advice and true of real life. Make it "normal" in your life like everything else you do and talk about. You never know who God might bring across your path of life.
 
Not necessarily. It can look impossible, but that doesn't mean it is.
My hubby figured if it was ever going to happen it would be someone local, not online or long distance, and it would happen naturally. That was true.

I was always outspoken about our beliefs and my interest in living that way. The single mom he hired as secretary got to know and like the whole family....and certainly admired him. Then after a year or so she accepted a permanent position.

Be a good steward of what you have. A good husband, father, provider. Be open about your beliefs. Ya never know when something good might come into your life.
Yes this is good advice and currently the best chance for finding someone! For the online portion of meeting people who are looking for it specifically and not happen upon it, there needs to be more awareness brought to polygyny. There may be multitudes of people who would hop on looking for it but just haven't even cognitively been aware that it is even a thing at all. I know I at one point, I never even knew this was a option that could exist in marriage.
 
I know I at one point, I never even knew this was a option that could exist in marriage.
Exactly, and that's why people need to learn the truth but most won't if someone doesn't tell them. If I hadn't been challenged to study the issue out biblically, I would still be just like most others rejecting what God says is righteous living.
 
I know I at one point, I never even knew this was a option that could exist in marriage.
I was kinda raised with the idea, so I never had the aversion to it most women do.

I get it though, most think it would be strife and jealousy, or wrong morally.

Not many (thanks to media only running polygyny horror peices) think of a happy family that just happens to have two moms in It.

Oh well, we will change perceptions as we can....and let the programmed live in their messed up world of fear....if they refuse to see.

Exactly, and that's why people need to learn the truth but most won't if someone doesn't tell them. If I hadn't been challenged to study the issue out biblically, I would still be just like most others rejecting what God says is righteous living.
And there would be another single woman in your area wishing she could find a good man.

It isn't just about us. ... it blesses us all.
 
A true theologian is a master of the language that he is sharing and teaching. ESL (english as a second language) is a poor excuse for misspelling and faulty grammer. Can a teacher teach if he can't spell? I am a student but I do teach those things I know. Ask me about manufacturing processes- been there, done that for 40 years.
 
A true theologian is a master of the language that he is sharing and teaching. ESL (english as a second language) is a poor excuse for misspelling and faulty grammer. Can a teacher teach if he can't spell? I am a student but I do teach those things I know. Ask me about manufacturing processes- been there, done that for 40 years.
Shoot some of us have trouble speaking English as our first language lol
 
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I have gotten some to talk to me, it didn't go anywhere because the values differed to much or they lived to far away. I think the main thing that is posing a problem is that we live in a society where polygyny does not want to be done. Modernpolygamy.com seems to be really excellent at keeping spam fake accounts away. But this reveals the startling reality that there are so few women actually seeking polygyny. There needs to be a rise in popularity of polygyny for any of us to have a chance at finding someone.
That is part of my personal mission not just for us men now but our sons later.
 
Not necessarily. It can look impossible, but that doesn't mean it is.
My hubby figured if it was ever going to happen it would be someone local, not online or long distance, and it would happen naturally. That was true.

I was always outspoken about our beliefs and my interest in living that way. The single mom he hired as secretary got to know and like the whole family....and certainly admired him. Then after a year or so she accepted a permanent position.

Be a good steward of what you have. A good husband, father, provider. Be open about your beliefs. Ya never know when something good might come into your life.

Good and G-dly Women are Rare like Diamonds, same with G-dly Men as well.
May G-d Bless people to open their eyes to Believe and Obey Him.
 
A true theologian is a master of the language that he is sharing and teaching. ESL (english as a second language) is a poor excuse for misspelling and faulty grammer. Can a teacher teach if he can't spell? I am a student but I do teach those things I know. Ask me about manufacturing processes- been there, done that for 40 years.
Of course. However, I also found the situation amusing.
 
Yea that was my beef. Beautiful women seemed to message me only when my subscription was due and the only was to respond was to subscribe and if you do subscribe and write to them, they do not even write back. Hmm....
Wait a minute. If I'm not mistaken, what you were replying to was about Modern Polygamy. If so, you never had a paid account, and haven't been on long enough for one to lapse if you had.

I would appreciate if you could clarify the site you are referring to as this reflects badly on us. While you may be able to claim that you don't get the response you had hoped for, in spite of the puppy, this is one claim that can not be made.

...not least because it's free to reply without a paid account so doing this kind of scam that another site may do would be pointless because you wouldn't need a paid account to carry on the conversation.
 
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