Supposition and speculation. This seems to be another of those situations where one party claims a wrong has been committed when there is nothing Scriptually sinful with what has been done. But I have no axe to grind here so I'm out. CheersI think any wife would have a pretty good idea of what her husband approves of in this area, and saying "well he didn't technically say not to do that" is the sort of excuse I could imagine a child using to justify something they know full well the answer would be "no" to if they asked.