Mikki, you're fine here. If you can make the Austin retreat, you'll see for yourself—this is a pretty warm group. And I think between you and Mojo, the thing is that we all acknowledge that many (all?) denominations have had racist issues in the past, but the LDS are the only group that have applied that racist theology to plural marriage (for obvious reasons). If the other denominations had permitted plural marriage, I'm sure racist teaching would have worked its way in there too, it just never became an issue for them because PM wasn't an issue for them.