My mom gets every free thing she can on her birthday, I get a kick out of driving her around to these places.I have a sis that makes a point of getting every Free offer she can on her birthday, from frozen yogurt to a steak dinner....a free doughnut or sub sandwich?
I guess she feels accomplished?
I have never gotten anything that way.
We do celebrate birthdays. Angels sang when Yeshua was born. I don't have any problem celebrating those natal anniversaries. A child being born healthy is a precious gift. Each year we live is also something to be thankful for. I never heard anything bad about candles.. or thought about the why. In our family when I was young mom would let us choose our favorite cake....we had ice cream. Presents were always minimal.
It's the same for our children.
I agree, I love getting people gifts for their birthday, cooking them a nice dinner and cake. I never liked celebrating my own birthday but as i've gotten older I really love the time with family and enjoy giving and receiving sentimental gifts.
A family tradition we started a while back is we "wish" good things for each family member on our birthday instead of wishing things for ourselves.