Sometimes we try to take on to much but we really really want to live set apart and off the land.
I can well relate to this. I feel like I am way behind this year because of unexpected health challenges. If you are already maxed out, then there is no wiggle room for being sick or unexpected opportunities popping up.
Building slow is building strong.
With an orchard for example, it is a long term thing....so to stress about getting it "done" in a year, or even several is to risk missing the joy on the journey.
Some of my little ones like playing "This is the day" on the piano. It is a frequent reminder to me to prioritize joy and thankfulness. (And as I like to work....and expect others to work...I need the reminder often)
It is easy to think country living is great, it has its charms and challenges.
For those that love it, it's the only way to go, but there is a lot less on you when you have a job and a city life. I have fond memories of our first two years of married life. Hubby had a job, we rented a house, we had zero pets or plants tying us down.
I dont wish to go back, but when you run a business, your work is not restricted to business hours. Maintenance on equipment, bidding jobs, these things crowd into the weekend often.
Livestock is a 24/7 responsibility.....as are children.
There is this quote I saw relating to sheep....works for children too.
"To be successful with sheep, even when you are not thinking about them, you'd best be thinking about them a little"
I'm thankful the Good Shepherd is a better shepherd then I am. Nuff said.