Could definitely be the case at times however I'm always asking questions and talking when I meet new people. Some just like to go on and on about their single interest to the point that even their own wives leave our conversation as well because she's like "here he goes again, I've heard this a thousand times" lol. That's the situation my advice was more geared towards avoiding.
I do hear you,
@LDremoved, but, even though it's even possible that the other wives are disrespectfully rolling their eyes, one thing of import to note is that
they are still his wives, which means that, despite the fact that, in their perspectives, they're reacting with boredom,
they married this man and they continue to choose to remain with him.
As men, we can make the mistake of expecting the women in our lives to fully appreciate, understand and equally join us in our missions, but that's a mistake, because at least 95% of women simply aren't equipped to be able to join us on that level. That's why women are to be the
helpmeets of men. A women's strengths are most actualized when she perfects her ability to identify male leaders
without ever being capable of duplicating or even fully comprehending how those male leaders can accomplish what they're capable of. A man "droning on about his single interest" may just be him providing evidence the best he knows how to produce it that he's a man who will do what he says he'll do no matter how much others complain that it didn't tickle their fancies.
One of the most common mistakes
women make in the dating/courting process is (a) failing to remain focused on the necessity of identifying if a man is worthy of following, and consequently (b) operating under the illusion that the purpose of dating is for men to prove that they will make their women the center of their universe.
As women, you are entirely dependent on the existence of men in your life, so your task is to identify a man who will best provide you with what you're dependent on -- rather than testing him to see if he will demonstrate how much he'll be willing to twist himself into a pretzel to treat you like a queen.