Good afternoon, Reinold.
Thank you for sharing your story. There is much in it that I can relate to. In my own case, the idea of being in a plural family was introduced before I married my wife 32 years ago, but I subsequently caved in to having that pushed out of our lives in a way that defined it as illegitimate. God didn't let up on me, though, and several years ago He etched on my heart that I needed to pursue this actively, even if just as a supporter. The journey for my wife and I has been a difficult one, but I all the more appreciate her for sticking with it and evolving with me to the point that she and I are now hand-in-hand in partnership seeking someone to join us. I thus grieve for you as you wrestle this out with Jadwiga and Katharina. I pray that God provides for resolution in your futures together.
Your brother in Christ,
Keith