Copied and pasted from a men's group I started concerning Patriarchy & Biblical Marriage
For me, the vast majority of people truly believe monogamy is the ethical, God honoring way. IF they truly believe they are honoring God, why would I be combative?
Ephesians 4:15
15 But speaking the truth in love, may grow up into him in all things, which is the head, even Christ:
2 Timothy 2:24-25
24 And the servant of the Lord must not strive; but be gentle unto all men, apt to teach, patient,
25 In meekness instructing those that oppose themselves; if God peradventure will give them repentance to the acknowledging of the truth;
Instead let us speak the truth in love, not striving, gentle, patient, meekly instructing.
Remember the vast majority of these people are brothers and sisters in Christ and believe a lie. Combativeness will not win hearts or minds, that only entrenches the mind and hardens the heart. We should not be disparaging Christendom (His betrothed) with a slur (christendumb or whore church), that will not win them. It just makes the one speaking the insult look like an enemy. You don't win people by making yourself an enemy.
I understand there is much to revile in organized religion. But reviling His brides is not something I would feel comfortable doing. I'd be pretty pissed off if one of my wives was slinging mud like that at one of my other brides.
Hearing polygyny is supposedly acceptable is a complete inversion of what most people think to be right and good.