leastofthese
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6 "And if she had at all an husband, when she vowed, or uttered ought out of her lips, wherewith she bound her soul;Sorry, but very untrue. (But - I guess if YHVH can't keep His Word and His Covenants... )
I can't help but think (see "Faustus" and even "Damn Yankees") that if people can make a "deal with the Devil" - and be bound by that, there is something here to ponder. Remember what Yakov said that cost him Rachel.
No, and even any kidding aside, THIS is why Yahushua said, "let your 'yes' be yes, and your 'no' be no..."
Our vows are vitally important. Numbers 30:2:
"If a man vow a vow unto YHVH, or swear an oath to bind his soul with a bond; he shall not break his word, he shall do according to all that proceedeth out of his mouth."
We have all seen some pretty creative excuses for saying that so many things have been 'done away with', I'm sure that could be made to apply to vows. After all, people do it with the marriage covenant all the time.
But I don't think it's a good way to enter a polygynous marriage.
And it's part of why I suggest Numbers chapter 30 is SO vital to understand, and apply.
7 And her husband heard it, and held his peace at her in the day that he heard it: then her vows shall stand, and her bonds wherewith she bound her soul shall stand.
14 But if her husband altogether hold his peace at her from day to day; then he establisheth all her vows, or all her bonds, which are upon her: he confirmeth them, because he held his peace at her in the day that he heard them."
This would stand then if a couple was married for more then a year? If the husband finds out 10 years into the marriage he wants to pursue polygyny but they both vowed to forsake others on their wedding day then SCRIPTURALLY they must keep the original vows they made? Neither "disallowed" the vows day to day for years. Unless of course, they release the vows and rewrite new ones? Where in Scripture does it speak about releasing vows? Or is that what disallow means?