No,
@MemeFan. This is what happens when a man disregards the authority of a father and entices that man's daughter to do the same. This is what happens when a woman rebels against her father. I know you champion that. You should stop blaming the consequences on the command and start pinning it to the rebellion where it belongs.
So Margery's childer are bastards.
Uh, I forgot additional possibilty. Margery's father can show at her house with new man, claim new man is her real husband and ahe has leave her existing children and current man to start living with new man. After all, father didn't approve current man, so no marriage exists.
I think sometimes people here are so into verses that they forgot real life consequences. I don't power and what we can enforce..., but thinking strictly legally. What law says and how people will react to that.
And I don't champion rebellion. We just disagree where limits are. And it's probably your protective instincts pushing you into having more control. I personally prefer good instruction since children will anyway make decisions for themselves.
And where does that passage mention marriage?
And where is marriage a covenant?
I believe it was Gary North who mentioned that covenant includes self-maledictionary oath and spilling of blood. Virginity loss includes spilling of blood. So marriage is covenant.
Issue isn't can father break wow, but covenant. I doubt it. Self-makedictionary oath is call upon deity to punish you for breaking terms.
Anyone who thinks this is a good idea needs to look into what happened to Charlemagne’s daughters or the epidemic of unmarried young people in quiverfull communities. Forbidding to marry is heavily discouraged.
Charlemagne isn't good example. He allowed his daughters to have man and children, just nothing official.
His real problem was Franks custom of civil war between all heirs for throne. Franks law made mandatory breaking kingdom into smaller parts and each heir receiving part. If only heirs were happy with smaller kingdom, but everybody wanted whole inheritance.
Having less official heirs makes inheritance war less likely.
Obviously a father should exercise discretion and apply guidance and sometimes even pressure, but acting like a father can legitimize or deligitimize a one flesh Union is just outside all bounds of scripture.
Problem with young girls is favouring of dominant men, but not prosocial men. Any mafia "muscle" is dominant, but not prosocial. Helping daughter avoid such men is good.
Anyway, status consideration and social pressure do influence with from women will sleep and marry. So, her family will have a lot of influence.