UntoldGlory said:It frankly makes me angry.
Me too.
UntoldGlory said:It frankly makes me angry.
FollowingHim said:But this does mean it is legal to have multiple wives. You call them wives, and make formal commitments to them without using a state license. The state considers them girlfriends. Everyone's happy, nobody's breaking the law.
deanunit2010 said:How open are ya'll about your families? We had a chat tonight about opening up to everyone about us wanting to do this, we already know what will happen with the church but at this point we will find a move accepting church, havent really told anyone yet but the few we did are open to the idea or pretty much said they dont care but its just not for them which i respect, do you think?
NetWatchR said:FollowingHim said:But this does mean it is legal to have multiple wives. You call them wives, and make formal commitments to them without using a state license. The state considers them girlfriends. Everyone's happy, nobody's breaking the law.
Actually, you need to be very careful about this in states that observe common law marriages. Without a state license, calling a woman your wife even once in public can constitute a common law marriage making her a legal wife and if you're already married... Boom! Bigamy charges.
Just thought I'd throw out that little caveat.
What this means is that if you take another wife you must still provide the same things to your first wife, you should not take away from her. This is also the case if you are dating. "Duty of marriage" is talking about sex. So yes, please sleep with your wife! I understand that things will be a bit different as you go through this process but try and keep them as normal as possible. It's really important right now that you take care of your first wife's needs particularly well. She will find you being with another woman difficult at times and needs support and encouragement.Exodus 21:10 "If he take him another wife; her food, her raiment, and her duty of marriage, shall he not diminish."
FollowingHim2 said:What this means is that if you take another wife you must still provide the same things to your first wife, you should not take away from her. This is also the case if you are dating. "Duty of marriage" is talking about sex. So yes, please sleep with your wife! I understand that things will be a bit different as you go through this process but try and keep them as normal as possible. It's really important right now that you take care of your first wife's needs particularly well. She will find you being with another woman difficult at times and needs support and encouragement.Exodus 21:10 "If he take him another wife; her food, her raiment, and her duty of marriage, shall he not diminish."