Make it a new start. Break from the past. Love your wife with a firm, but gentle love. Let her feel the security of knowing you will take care of her through the storm while you stand on the Rock of Salvation. Help her understand that her security depends on her following you, and that you are following God no matter where He takes you. That you believe in plural marriage and that you believe there is life in it no matter if He brings someone else or not. But in any event, let her know that you will always take care of her. Encourage her self esteem, but don't let it control you. Husbands can make their wives beautiful.