All we say regarding language in the forum rules is "Use clean and respectful language. No nudity or other vulgarity." - which is deliberately vague. I have no interest in policing everyone's language like some annoying schoolteacher - but there's a rule that's vaguely worded enough to let us do so if someone's being particularly repulsive. There's plenty of bad language on the forum because it's generally not policed. Also:
But we should be striving to be respectful, and @steve has every right to politely suggest that a higher standard would be desirable.
...and vice-versa - there's a good chance people have said things on the forum which would be taken as highly offensive by Americans which have completely gone over my head. This is all relative and changes from country to country and from generation to generation.Or what is considered completely acceptable in American English is a bad word in Kiwi English.
But we should be striving to be respectful, and @steve has every right to politely suggest that a higher standard would be desirable.