The church has completely missed the lesson of Paul when he said...
Was going to post on this but figured maybe hijacking someone else's thread is better?
I found this lesson really hit home the other day when it came to the issue of drinking with my father-in-law who is a teatotaller. Do I think drinking is wrong? No. In fact I'd argue that getting drunk, while unwise and to be avoided, is also not a sin. But my father-in-law absolutely refuses alchohol of any kind. For a long time this annoyed me, and I felt indignant when my wife would ask if I could avoid ordering alchohol while at dinner with him. Although she agreed with me in the end, I eventually found it quite grating the complaints and comments I would get from him. And then I realized...this was impacting my own spiritual life. My resentment and annoyance was causing ME problems. Suddenly I realized: yeah I'll drink as much as I like without him around...but when he's there...it's really nothing to do with whether he likes it or not. It has everything to do with my own heart attitude and spiritual peace of mind, so to speak. As soon as I realized that, it was like a fog lifted and this verse carried so much more meaning. In the past I've always found it primarily a comfort in the whole weaker/stronger brother debate. But now I finally found a place where the 'willfully giving up something' actually applied to me haha.
@PassionatePatriarch
The problem is inconsistency. I'm going to post longer on this very topic, but I think that's the issue at its core. Willful ignorance, in some cases, fear in others...but in the end, inconsistent faith and inconsistent behavior/beliefs. The same person who has a developed and mature view on gambling, for example, might turn around and beat their child (and I'm not talking corporeal punishment) while simultaneously exclaiming that Pokemon is evil. It's craziness. I realize in myself that there are plenty of things I don't have a full 'answer' for, and don't fully understand. I don't PRETEND to know or understand those things. And sometimes, God surprises me and shows me something ELSE that I hadn't even considered myself ignorant in that suddenly I have to go do a lot of prayer and study of the Word before I can move forward. But so many Christians don't even TRY, much less care to do so. They are perfectly content to argue that because magic is bad we shouldn't watch movies with wizards in them while at the same time saying that homosexuality is ok.
wut?
I would encourage everyone: do not think of yourselves more highly than you ought. And I don't mean that to be insulting, but simply...know your limits. Know what you know and what you DONT know. Make sure you have researched, with an open mind and heart and listening to the Spirit, every theological issue you see fit to speak about or take a strong stance on...ESPECIALLY as it relates to the so-termed 'peripherals'.