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Thriftiness

Hey Ladies,
I have used goat's milk soap. Personally I don't care for it for regular bathing, but it's really good if you need soothing. Hubby tends to get poison ivy when he's doing yard work,(he looks at it and gets it) and he likes it after a bout cause his skin is so inflamed. I tried it on diaper rash (grandson) and the redness cleared up after just a bit.
 
Dont know if this could possibly help anyone... but around me there is a large Amish community. They have stores and bakeries that offer discounted food from normal grociery stores. The products usually have damaged boxes or are possibly outdated, but are still good. Sometimes you do have to watch out tho, the dates can occassionally get a little extreme. I hear that the Amish are great at building barns too :). and, they are such good people. Whats not to love?
 
For some reason I just happened to see this thread for this first time..I LOVE it!! Chris and I follow the Dave Ramsey program, so that means using NO credit and taking on NO debts, while we pay off our existing ones. Not the easiest or funnest thing to do, but in a few years when we are debt free except the house it will feel soooooo good!!! Here's a few of my best money-saving tips:

Coupons:
- get a good coupon organizer that you can stash in your purse or car. A lot of dollar stores sell nice ones. When you are stuck waiting somewhere, pull out your coupons and trash expired ones while you wait.
- use coupons for extra grocery savings. Check with family and friends - those that don't use their coupons, beg, borrow or steal them for additional savings! Spend 20-30 minutes once a week planning grocery shopping to coordinate sale items with coupons you have. As time goes by, you will get much faster at doing this..and the savings are significant! Also, make sure to pay attention to the usual prices of basics that you buy frequently and stock up when something's on sale (as long as you will use it all before it expires!).
- If there is an item you buy frequently, check ebay or coupon trading websites for coupons. Often you can purchase several coupons for the same item for a dollar or less.
- make sure to take ALL your coupons to the grocery with you, not just the ones you'll be using that day. That way if there is a surprise sale on an item, you have your coupons ready as well.
- even though purchasing the larger size is usually the best deal, sometimes using coupons for a smaller box can be an even better deal. Do the math when purchasing.

Food:
- make your own convenience foods and mixes for much, much cheaper than store-bought! There are recipes for anything and everything you could want to make available on the internet, for free! One good website that has many recipes for convenience mixes is, http://www.hillbillyhousewife.com. (Yes that's really the name! LOL) Another good website for recipes is http://www.allrecipes.com. If there is any store-bought item you like (cereals, broth, yogurts, granola bars, etc) chances are you can find a recipe to make it yourself at home!
- do not buy cookbooks or cooking magazines. Again, almost any and every recipe you could want is available for free online.
- buy in bulk IF it's a good deal. To know if it's a good deal or not, you are going to want to know what the average price is for an item you usually buy, then do the math. One example is yeast. Yeast in the little packets are usually $1.50-$2 for 3 tiny packets! A jar of yeast costs $4 or so and has the equivalent of at least 30+ packets of yeast in it! Major savings from that one item!
- If you want to buy in bulk at Sams club or Costco but don't want to pay the hefty membership fee, find out if a friend or family member who's a member would be willing to take you with them when they go. Non-members can get in and shop as long as they are with a member, and can even pay for their order seperately. If you don't know anyone who is a member, call the store and ask if they have non-member 'preview' days. These are days in which the club is open to the public for them to try it out.
- try to make a meatless meal at least once a week. Meat is the most expensive part of a meal, so going meatless when you can will add up to significant savings. Some ideas: grilled cheese and tomato soup, cheese pizza, potato soup, pancakes or waffles, egg dishes, meatless chili, bean burritos, etc.. If going meatless isn't an option, try to make dishes that really stretch a small amount of meat. I have a shredded BBQ chicken dish that makes 4-6 servings from 2 breasts, also cut down on the amount of ground beef in spaghetti, taco salad, etc.. I bet your family won't even notice!
- make friends with your butcher/meat dept. manager. Ask the meat dept. workers at your local grocery when they mark down the meat for quick sale. Typically they have a set day or time they do this, and try to be there around that time. You might get some fantastic meat deals that you can pop in the freezer and use anytime.
- do not be afraid to freeze leftovers! Most foods freeze and reheat well. I have started to freeze individual portions of soups, entrees, etc. and now take them to work to eat for lunch in place of buying an expensive frozen dinner. This saves me a lot of money!! The only things I have heard don't freeze well are casseroles and soups with sour cream or mayonnaise in them. Also, when you bake brownies, cookies, etc.. freeze some. Not only will your family not have as many to gobble down in one sitting, but you will have some spares next time your sweet tooth strikes! Also, make sure to freeze small bits or leftovers for future dishes..I have a freezer baggie that I throw all my leftover biscuits and cornbread in. When it's full, I thaw them out and make homemade dressing..delicious!
- try generics. If you don't have a coupon and the item's not on sale, but you really need it, try a generic item. I have tried many generic food items over the years, and almost always can tell no difference between that and the brand name.
- plan out your meals. Whenever possible, sit down at the beginning of the week and plan out your meals for the week. Not only will this save you time and avoid the 'what's for dinner!?' freak out every night, but this will save you a LOT of money. By planning on using recipes to use up items you have on hand or sale items you will be buying that week, you ensure good food won't go to waste. If I am having a particularly tight week financial-wise, a lot of times I can sit down and surprisingly plan out meals using many items I already have in the freezer and pantry, and may not need to spend much at the grocery at all.

Entertainment/Shopping:
- if you need a babysitter but don't have the money to hire one, see if a friend or family member will barter sitting services with you. Maybe you watch their children one night, they watch yours one night.
- Avoid eating out whenever possible. Try to bring your own snacks and food, or plan a picnic or bbq in a park instead. If you really want to eat out, try http://www.restaurant.com. This website lets you buy giftcards to participating local restaurants for 50-80% off! Just make sure to read and follow the guidelines set forth by the restaurant. My husband and I pretty much only eat out these days using that website, it's great! ALSO before purchasing restaurant.com gift certificates, make sure to do a google search for 'coupon codes restaurant.com'. Many times coupon codes will pop up that you can use and save an additional 20-50%!
- When doing ANY online shopping, make sure to do a search for coupon codes to save additional money before you purchase. Just go to the search engine, type in the name of the place you are shopping from and coupon codes, and many times several websites will pop up with coupon codes for a percentage off your purchase or free shipping. This trick has saved me a lot of money! Another way to get money back for online shopping is going through http://www.bing.com. Once you register for a bing.com account, you can shop at participating merchants online and recieve 5-25% of your money spent back as a cash refund to your paypal account. Some of the participating merchants offering this deal are Target, Walmart, and Toys R Us.
- A great website for good deals is http://www.bradsdeals.com. This is like an outlet type site for any and every item you can imagine.
- Don't purchase books, dvd's and cd's! Go to the local library for what you want. If they don't have it, try http://www.paperbackswap.com. Once you set up your free account and pledge ten books that you would be willing to ship out to people if they request them, you can order books from other people for free. You get 2 free books to start when you sign up, and another free book everytime you ship one of yours out to someone. They also have a cdswap and dvdswap site too, all for free!
- Look for FREE activities you can do with your family. Often times, you can look these up on your local newspapers' website, or look on city-specific websites to find activities offered.

Cleaning/Household:
- make your own cleaners. Besides being SO much cheaper, these have much less chemicals than store-bought. A great tub scrubbing cleaner is equal parts salt and white vinegar. Make a paste, rub on stains, let sit for an hour and gently wipe off. Your tub will sparkle! A great all-purpose cleaner is white vinegar and water. Great for cleaning counters, sinks and stovetops.
- If you must purchase your cleaning items, check out the dollar store. They have every cleaning item imaginable for $1!
- If you don't have one, buy a digital thermostat. You can set the temperature in the house lower or higher depending on the season when everyone is asleep or away from home to save money. This can really add up to a significant energy savings!

Etc.:
- try not to take on any debt if you can help it. When you take on a debt, you are basically flushing money down the toilet...it's called interest! Whenever possible, save for something and pay cash. You can be assured of saving money this way.
- save throughout the year for Christmas. Christmas is coming every single year, no matter what. And every year, you are going to spend money on Christmas. Estimate what you spend on an average holiday season, and divide it by 10. Start saving that amount every month starting in January, and by October you will have all the money you need to breeze through the holidays debt-free!

Hope these tips help! I LOVE saving money, so it was really fun for me to share these with you! My favorite debt-free websites are: http://www.daveramsey.com, http://www.debtfreeliving.com, http://www.hillbillyhousewife.com, and http://www.tightwad.com.
 
Greetings & Blessings Kacylynn!

Great post and great ideas. :D Our family is also trying to implement these thrifter living habits. I once was a coupon cuter, got lost, but now I'm found! Lol :D On my way back to the cutting of the coupons by your sweet encouragement. We also glean allot of nuggets of wisdom regarding responsible stewardship of our familie's income & spending issues from Dave Ramsey. We had at one time almost 2yrs ago now had leased a car, but will never do that again! We have been down to one van for the entire families mode of transportation for these past 2 yrs!

Whew - what a challenge that has been! Trying to keep up with everyone's schedule & minimizing our extra curricular activities, to save on extra trips and money spent on gas. It was hard though, taking my husband to work a half hour each way if I needed the van for the day! But I must say in that time, the Lord saw fit to bring us closer together and helped to improve our communication and closeness. :) We learned to listen to one another and share in making our plans for the week together on the rides into work. Which I also learned the lovely lost art of Godly-balanced Loving Submission unto my dh! When discussing the day/week, I sought his approval for all things in our home & outside the home. I sought his direction and approval for the plans for home schooling our boys for the week, shopping and chore lists, etc. Sometimes going without extras, such as extra cars,etc helps you to be creative and enjoy the blessings that are already there before us! :D I know that my dh has come to appreciate our extra time together on the rides into his work. He also has come to enjoy, respect, expect and appreciate my sweet submission unto him and the Lord alone. :) Also along this newer path of Godly-balanced Submission, dh seems to be desiring more of the Lord and seeking to be our patriarchial head of our home! Gee - see what a lack "of extra" in our lives can bring! ;)

Anywho, I also have been researching home made all natural cleaning solutions for the home. I still have a few to try, along with checking into the free recipe websites. I'm not the most organized cook or that creative in the kitchen, as I do tend to have "those freek-out moments," you mentioned when trying to figure out dinner! My mother died young of heart disease, so she never had the extra energy to bring me in the kitchen. I know cooking isn't exactally rocket science, but it has just never come easy for me. But that is one of my goals, is to improve in the art of cooking for my dh and family! I'm ok in the kitchen, nothing special & nothing organized for sure. :? I look forward to a new year in Christ, and gaining new Godly wisdom in my marriage and in the lovely duties of being a keeper at home! :D Thanks again for your encouraging and sweetly shared nuggets of household wisdom.

Warm Wishes for a Joyous & God-directed New Year in Christ!
Faithful Servant
 
well we have a garden every year.. and out of that garden we can what we can and what we cant and we may sell or use for sauces and so on.. we have chicken and we hunt and fish.. we also do thrift stores and handme downs.. and we also try to cut electric bills .. by using oil lamps and fans instead of air conditions.. we are looking for a wood stove... we also do alot of bulk buying... and stuff like that. thank you for laundry soap recipce.. that was awesome
 
Thank you for all of the wonderful ideas! I am also an avid couponer and love bargain hunting. :)

I don't have much to add except for this cute story regarding a friend of mine. She purchased a beautiful serving platter for me one year for Christmas, was smiling ear to ear as I opened it because she knows I love "odd" designed platters and this was PERFECT for me. I opened the box and inside was a card that read, Dear "" Congratulations on your wedding! We love you! Aunt and Uncle "". I thought it was funny, but my friend was horrified. lol. I LOVED the gift and did not care where it came from. :D
 
ROFLOL, CountryWmn. Great story!

Bet you are STILL enjoying the platter, too. Twice as much, on account of the fun story attached!
 
Does getting Etienne Aigner shoes at 60% off count as thrifty, or Micheal Kors like 40% off or only buying my Lancome when its gift for purchase count. I'm gonna guess no lol!!!
 
CecilW said:
ROFLOL, CountryWmn. Great story!

Bet you are STILL enjoying the platter, too. Twice as much, on account of the fun story attached!

Hi Cecil ! I didn't know you had a uterus ! :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
 
lights12 said:
Does getting Etienne Aigner shoes at 60% off count as thrifty, or Micheal Kors like 40% off or only buying my Lancome when its gift for purchase count. I'm gonna guess no lol!!!

I think it counts! Personally, I have gotten many good deals on new brand name clothing and shoes on Ebay. I live in an area that doesn't have big stores. Catalogs and the internet have become a very convenient way for me to shop.
 
Fairlight said:
Hi Cecil ! I didn't know you had a uterus ! :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

Whoops! Sorry ladies. I now retire in disgrace with a highly reddened face!
 
Hello ladies,

Now this is a subject I love to talk about and I have a lot to say.
I enjoy reading labels of items that are bought at the grocery store. And for instance Mayonnaise the main of the first few ingredients are oil and eggs they of course add a bunch of other stuff to make it taste better. So if you pick up yourself a little hand held blender Kitchen Aid and Cuisinart are two of the major brands that sell them and make your own Mayonnaise. You can add a dash of sugar, salt and pepper, lemon juice and get creative to help make it taste a little better. Although buying it does taste better but hey if your family loves to eat sandwiches you'll be amazed as to how much this will save you some money. I do however recommend not using canola oil doesn't make a tasty spread and isn't very healthy so if you want a healthy oil invest in some Safflower Oil a lot healthier option.

Make your own breakfast syrup. Healthier option and you also can get creative as your saving some money. There are many recipes out there that you can make syrup with fruit my favorite is strawberry syrup from scratch. :)

Make all that you can from scratch and I have found that a lot of recipes don't take any longer then buying it in a box. I love to make brownies from scratch, but don't get to make it that often for its not that healthy for you to eat all the time.

We spend so much more money on what I like to call "convenience foods" and a convenience food simply is anything that is already prepared for you and this includes frozen meals. Chips, candies, cookies, soda (I think is the worst money suck there is) pizzas, things that are in boxes like muffin mixes, brownie mixes, cake mixes.... and the list goes on. You will always spend so much more money on these things and when I cut them out of my grocery bill I have saved at least 50% of my money. And the things that take me longer in the kitchen has always been the most rewarding because when my husband says "oh my this is so tasty" I know it was worth it. I love seeing people who taste my food just light up right after the first bite. And now who wouldn't want that?

In the future I will be making my own soaps, raising chickens for eggs and also chicken in my freezer, hunting, fishing, making my own butter (butter is simple all it is is cream and salt whipped up).

I also love to garden and can my own food. My upcoming goal is to start my own food storage of foods that will last me and my family for a year at least that is; more the merrier. Think of the savings there. I also make my own laundry soap that is a big saver there and very simple to make and I am a bit old fashion and like to line dry my clothes. Look up Lehman's magazine they've got lots of great stuff for sale that will help save you money.

Our other goals include living completely off the land. I firmly believe this how God would want life to be. Self sufficiency is the ultimate goal of ours the only concern at this time would be how to better His Kingdom.

~Asia
 
Hi Ladies,

I love this thread, and have thoroughly enjoyed reading it! Our family tries to be very thrifty, and we use many of the strategies that you have outlined. A few additional things that we do :

Collecting rain water from the roof into 50 gal drums. This can be used in the washer in the winter, and in the garden in the summer when it starts to get stagnant. We have friends that have installed a large underground tank for rain water holding, pretty cool and not that expensive.

Joining a food Co-op. We have a local food co-op group that buys flour, corn meal, and other dry basics in bulk and has a distribution night once a month.

Joining the gleaners. We live on a production farm, but there is often fresh fruit and canned goods that we can access through this group.

Applying for a wood cutting permit. Local forest owners often issue wood cutting permits on newly logged ground. My son had a cut permit from a local owner this summer, and cut both for our family, and to sell. We have had two vacation weekends to the woods while the boys cut, and many great memories of working and exploring.

Applying for fishing, crabbing and clamming licenses. The boys hunt, but us girls think that is a bit too much for our delicate senses. We do however vacation to the Oregon coast once a year and crab and clam in the bays. Everything we catch can be cooked on the spot and frozen when we get home. It makes for a wonderful Christmas feast!
Keep laying hens. Hens can be raised on food scraps from your family and a little added corn or scratch. The eggs taste so much better too!

Put the kids in 4-H. The 4-H extension program has free educational materials, free programs, and teaches skills like sewing and cooking. Kids can also raise a market animal to sell at the local auction. My girls each raised 3 chickens to sell at our county fair and made 500 dollars. We apply the money to school clothes each year. Our family has our own club which keeps others directly out of our business, but allows access to the program's offerings.

Buy the kids used bikes. My kids each have a bicycle. Each has learned to care for the mechanics, and can air a tire or grease gears. It is a huge fuel saver for getting a whole parcel of kids to their after school activities, and to friends houses.

Collect rocks. My family has a tradition of bringing the biggest stone you can carry home each time we visit the river. It is a fun and cheap way to line the walkway to our house, and way cheaper than buying decorative rock.

I hope this is helpful to someone, I know it makes us feel wonderful to know we can keep our children fed and reasonably happy with out going completely broke :)
-Claire
 
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Hi, does anyone use google voice, it's through gmail, there is a little phone on the side where you can call for FREE, but you have to download the plug-in. Does anyone use google voice, just wondering. Wanted to give it a try, because of it's many free call features. I hear that you ca use it with the obi, as well. It's free texts, free long distance, voicemail. This is an awesome way to save money. The obi is 40$ if you want a real like phone instead of using just your computer. Search it on google and let me know if you use it.
 
http://www.diylife.com/2010/08/12/25-ho ... for-borax/

I just got some borax, it is finnally at dollar general. Yah, the link has 25 uses for borax, I been adding it to everything around here in the house.

I use the oatmeal containers to store suguar, flour, or bagged brown suguar, since I never bought the real canisters which I dont like anyway. I have like 7 oatmeal round containers. I can label them as well.

What are some more ways to save money?
 
I have started going to the goodwill since our son was born. They have an area in the back at ours where you can dig through clothes, and they charge you by the pound. They also have toys, books, car seats and everything. You can find a lot of name brands there Ambercrombie, American Eagle, Gymboree, and others. I am going to start going once a week, and just getting good clothes, taking them to the consignment shops and selling them to make extra money.

I'll be the first to tell you all I am not the best house maker. I hate cooking, hate cleaning, I don't make anything on my own really. I mean yes I can cook and i have been getting better at cooking since I am now a wife, stay at home mother and wife. I am hoping to become a lot better at everything(and yes my house is clean, laundry done,beds made)..
 
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