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What are people's views on age gaps?

I definitely heard that for a source that I found credible at the time but I can’t remember where now so I can’t defend the statement.
Nothing hormonal here, but cultural here.

If your community has custom of 7+children, you having 2 children is strange and being childless makes you freak.

Same reason people look with disapproval now on couples with 5 children.

It's just copy-paste.
 
Nothing hormonal here, but cultural here.

If your community has custom of 7+children, you having 2 children is strange and being childless makes you freak.

Same reason people look with disapproval now on couples with 5 children.

It's just copy-paste.
I forgot... Where are you at again?
 
That’s what I’ve read. It might have been on a podcast too.
Sarah had a son after Hagar, Leah and Rachel gave Jacob their handmaiden then God gave them more kids. It’s almost like it’s a biology thing that when a woman slows down on reproduction but then allows her husband to take another wife who is younger; they are then able to have more babies.
 
There is no fertility favouring culture in Croatia.

Few kids are OK, I doubt dozen will be admired.
Ah. I must have misunderstood. I thought your comment was about where you lived.

"If your community has custom of 7+children, you having 2 children is strange and being childless makes you freak."

Well, anti-natalist seem to be in more places than pro-natalist.. Sigh...
 
Back on the original topic... .
I came across an article mentioning Dolph Lundgren's new wife. Dolph was born on November 3, 1957, and his latest wife, Emma Krokdal was born on July 1, 1996. She is the same age as his kids. They were married in July 2023 in Greece. It seems it's ok to have an age gap relationship in the USA provided you're an older actor with a hot young wife.
 
Back on the original topic... .
I came across an article mentioning Dolph Lundgren's new wife. Dolph was born on November 3, 1957, and his latest wife, Emma Krokdal was born on July 1, 1996. She is the same age as his kids. They were married in July 2023 in Greece. It seems it's ok to have an age gap relationship in the USA provided you're an older actor with a hot young wife.
Not only that but having money seems to grease the wheels as well. Woman are designed by Yah to seek provision/security and if they know that you can provide well, your attractiveness to them goes WAY up!
 
Just as a sidebar...this "woman" turned out just to be another flake and had maladaptive ideas they were pushing Hard. Enough so that it looked like it was intended as a trap.

Watch your ass gentlemen. There are predators and disingenuous types out there.
 
It was felt like being gaslit/targeted by "to catch a predator" but because there was no "there", there, interest just suddenly vanished away...
Yea, interest vanished because she has found another man.

Stop thinking you are only man expressing interest in her. Woman know that telling man that she is thinking about other men and who is her best option isn't seen in any good way. Therefore, they don't tell any man about what his competition and their status with her.

Which means don't assume competition doesn't exist.
 
Not only that but having money seems to grease the wheels as well. Woman are designed by Yah to seek provision/security and if they know that you can provide well, your attractiveness to them goes WAY up!
It doesn't. You are totally wrong here.

If you are were right, incel population would only exist from broke men.

It took about two minutes to find this article (and on first page of search engine) how to date someone broke:


So women are being boinked by broke men. Otherwise, no such article wouldn't exist.

Only situation where man's financial situation is important is in age gap relationaship. Women do expect older guys to establish themselves.

Women go for men with traits which cause wealth, not for wealth itself.

Also, young rich men are among men with worst women's skill. Precisely because they believe women want money and wealth. So they grind 70-100 weekly grind which finish with them having zero social skills.

Since women don't use same criteria to fatherhood (who will make baby) and who parenthood (who will raise baby), they can easily finish in situation where money want him only for parenthood.

Even if such woman is faithful to him, she will get bored after few years (more precisely, children aren't babies anymore) and her mind/body will push to find more worthy male for fatherhood.
She will want out and, thanks to our current laws, she can divorce rape.

He has zero defense because with zero social skills he won't recognize between gold diggers and genuine desire.
 
It was felt like being gaslit/targeted by "to catch a predator" but because there was no "there", there, interest just suddenly vanished away...
Similar.
I just explained the impractical nature of "her" seeming fetish and I suspect that talking about the ideas just not being practicable much less necessarily desirable in a world of low mortality salients was too boring to engage with for any extended period. Kind of funny really.
If they were wanting to do some sort of to catch a predator type scenario then it seemed like they had been reading some Warren Jeff's stuff and assuming all plural marriage guys wish to duplicate his situation
No thanks.

I do wonder how the account was verified by modern polygamy as he is judiciously cautious about trying to screen out that sort of nonsense
 
It was felt like being gaslit/targeted by "to catch a predator" but because there was no "there", there, interest just suddenly vanished away...

Yea, interest vanished because she has found another man.

Stop thinking you are only man expressing interest in her. Woman know that telling man that she is thinking about other men and who is her best option isn't seen in any good way. Therefore, they don't tell any man about what his competition and their status with her.

Which means don't assume competition doesn't exist.
You have no idea what we are talking about... :-)
 
Similar.
I just explained the impractical nature of "her" seeming fetish and I suspect that talking about the ideas just not being practicable much less necessarily desirable in a world of low mortality salients was too boring to engage with for any extended period. Kind of funny really.
If they were wanting to do some sort of to catch a predator type scenario then it seemed like they had been reading some Warren Jeff's stuff and assuming all plural marriage guys wish to duplicate his situation
No thanks.

I do wonder how the account was verified by modern polygamy as he is judiciously cautious about trying to screen out that sort of nonsense
Exactly... I even screenshot some of the conversations for my own protection... Crazy times...
 
You have no idea what we are talking about... :-)

Either you are talking with real women who is interested in something romantic. Since she is interested in romance and she suddenly stopped talking with you, she has definitly find romance with some else.

Or you are talking what you think is law enforcement hunting "predators". I doubt it, unless you were invited towards sharing underage pornography or something similar.

I would bet you have just found some fetish woman seeking someone similar.
 
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