@steve is right, none of us know @southernphotini well enough to make that incredibly harsh judgement. And on top of that I have seen anything she’s said that would lead me to a similar conclusion.You are not able to change a mans perspective. Only God can truly change a mans perspective. Are you ready fully to be a wife. I would say no by everything you have said.
Women willing to even engage with these ideas are rare. Driving them away from the community would be the height of foolishness.